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Old 04-10-2012, 01:48 PM
 
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Man don't take relationship advice from women. This isn't a knock on women but women tend to give you an emotional response when you should be a hunter. Here's what you should do. Date other women. If a woman is interested in you she will let you know right away. If time is a problem she will find a way to see you.

Here's something most every guy has had happen to them or has a friend it has happened to. You meet a woman and go slow to let the relationship develop. Well she meets knucklehead Jim and sleeps with him within 48 hours. Now you feel like a sucka for playing Mr. Nice guy.

2 months for a kiss? How much did that kiss cost you? LOL.. Been there done that.
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Old 04-10-2012, 03:01 PM
 
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You make out with her.
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Old 04-10-2012, 03:45 PM
 
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Man don't take relationship advice from women. This isn't a knock on women but women tend to give you an emotional response when you should be a hunter. Here's what you should do. Date other women. If a woman is interested in you she will let you know right away. If time is a problem she will find a way to see you.

Here's something most every guy has had happen to them or has a friend it has happened to. You meet a woman and go slow to let the relationship develop. Well she meets knucklehead Jim and sleeps with him within 48 hours. Now you feel like a sucka for playing Mr. Nice guy.

2 months for a kiss? How much did that kiss cost you? LOL.. Been there done that.
This could play out either way that's "Amore". This could be the atart of a great relationship or she could jump on top of the Mr Heartbreak stick. Likle the saying goes "It's all fair in Love and war"!
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Old 04-10-2012, 03:48 PM
 
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You ask : "How can I slow myself down?"

LOLOLOLOL! Please don't!
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Old 04-11-2012, 06:58 AM
 
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This could play out either way that's "Amore". This could be the atart of a great relationship or she could jump on top of the Mr Heartbreak stick. Likle the saying goes "It's all fair in Love and war"!
Yes exactly.
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Old 04-11-2012, 07:39 AM
 
Location: Columbus, OH
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Here's what you should do. Date other women. If a woman is interested in you she will let you know right away.
Forget the alpha male/ hunter gatherer stuff but the rest is still true. You need to date other women or at least make this girl know you could be. As I've stated on other threads, one of the strongest aphrodisiac's is jealousy. You want a woman to think you are choosing to be with her, not thanking your lucky stars that a woman is giving you a chance. If she thinks you could just as easily be with someone else she will either let you know her real feelings or you will know shes not really interested. Either way you are better off than you are right now.
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Old 04-11-2012, 08:18 AM
 
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Forget the alpha male/ hunter gatherer stuff but the rest is still true. You need to date other women or at least make this girl know you could be. As I've stated on other threads, one of the strongest aphrodisiac's is jealousy. You want a woman to think you are choosing to be with her, not thanking your lucky stars that a woman is giving you a chance. If she thinks you could just as easily be with someone else she will either let you know her real feelings or you will know shes not really interested. Either way you are better off than you are right now.

Or..the guy can just be a tiny bit more physically assertive. you know, make a move.

If not, yeah he should move on then.
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Old 04-11-2012, 10:04 AM
 
Location: Cincinnati, Ohio
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As I've stated on other threads, one of the strongest aphrodisiac's is jealousy. You want a woman to think you are choosing to be with her, not thanking your lucky stars that a woman is giving you a chance.
While I somewhat agree with your second statement, I don't understand the first one. Why would you want to start a relationship built on jealousy? Where will that road lead?
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