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Hi It seems I cant post a new thread in the relationship posts so I came here I am new, I have a question, I believe I know the answer but would like other views . Thank you.
I have been married 3 years now to a younger man, and the problem is he was fantasizing about other woman while we made love for 2 and half of these years. he claims he does not do this anymore however, he rarely wants to make love and when we do 8 out of 10 he cant get an erection to last. I think he is not attracted to me sexually. he loves me in other ways. I talked about this problem many times he does look at other woman and he does lie about it when I see him. now he wants to go on viagra which at his age is not heard of since he is 31. any views on this. Thanks. Sarah
Hi It seems I cant post a new thread in the relationship posts so I came here I am new, I have a question, I believe I know the answer but would like other views . Thank you.
I have been married 3 years now to a younger man, and the problem is he was fantasizing about other woman while we made love for 2 and half of these years. he claims he does not do this anymore however, he rarely wants to make love and when we do 8 out of 10 he cant get an erection to last. I think he is not attracted to me sexually. he loves me in other ways. I talked about this problem many times he does look at other woman and he does lie about it when I see him. now he wants to go on viagra which at his age is not heard of since he is 31. any views on this. Thanks. Sarah
Medical conditions do not have an age limit, he should go and be checked to ensure there are no medical issues that need to be dealt with. As far as the rest of it goes, your choice what to do. Either go to counseling and try to get this fixed (outside of a medical issue) or get divorced and move on then he can turn his fantasies about other women into real life and see how he likes it. Personally, I would not be married to someone who was not attracted to me sexually.
Im Hot, I guess according to my better half. And I am a woman
Sarah
Hot's good. I'm very much in favor of "hot." At 31, with the problem you describe, I would decidedly recommend a visit to his doctor. Jes don't seem right ta me! At my age, yes. At his, nope.
Not sure if this is really the forum for this topic, but I would recommend you guys do something to spice up the bedroom life.
Let's face it, you could be Jessica Alba, but after 3 years even filet mignon gets boring. You need to change things up to avoid monotony and making it look like a repetitive chore. I won't say how to spice it up, but in the world of physical intimacy, there are many ways, if you do your research.
ED is fairly common I've heard so he should see a Dr and both of you should seek marriage counseling. I'm not sure how you know whether or not he was fantasizing about other women or how you plan going about controlling his thoughts. I'm sure he doesn't appreciate being called a liar when/if he even thinks of another woman.
Sarah, if you've read posts on City-Data, what on earth would ever make you think of asking us for relationship advice? LOL
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