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I think he sounds rude and passive aggressive. If he valued you, it would not be a big deal to talk on the phone or text - even if he is with his daughter. He sounds like a jerk with control issues and you are not getting your needs met.
It is a sad situation because he holds all of the cards. You want MORE from him and he is not GIVING YOU WHAT YOU WANT. He is not meeting your needs - either can't or won't or doesn't care.
it's a mismatch. Get into therapy or get out.
He needs to bring something to the relationship.
You are basically "chasing" him and he is running away.
It's a "push-pull" problem. Look it up for more insight.
I think he sounds rude and passive aggressive. If he valued you, it would not be a big deal to talk on the phone or text - even if he is with his daughter. He sounds like a jerk with control issues and you are not getting your needs met.
It is a sad situation because he holds all of the cards. You want MORE from him and he is not GIVING YOU WHAT YOU WANT. He is not meeting your needs - either can't or won't or doesn't care.
it's a mismatch. Get into therapy or get out.
He needs to bring something to the relationship.
You are basically "chasing" him and he is running away.
It's a "push-pull" problem. Look it up for more insight.
Am I missing something from somewhere else.... how is he doing all of this because he didn't call when he was out with his daughter?
On this issue your guy could be right.
Don't be the person who started this thread, don't come between him and his child.
I do understand where you're coming from, but perhaps you should have made arrangements to contact each other while he wa saway BEFORE he left.
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