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Old 04-13-2012, 04:08 PM
 
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I was told that I have pure looking eyes and a pure big smile, "light of the Lord" as a few people called my smile.
Also many people say that I am very pure hearted and I have this "innocences" about me. I am in my upper 30's as well.
I have never been married and I am thinking that this is what turns guys off.
Everyone has told me never change who I am for anyone. Also no, I am not the preachy type either.
I am thin and natural looking too.
But I think that guys don't like the "pure type".
It seems as if the guys who do talk to me (online) only want to hurt me cause of my pureness and good hearted nature.
So I was wondering why do guys hate the pure type?
or are there some men out there who really do want the pure hearted and pure looking type of woman to marry?
The only logic I can think of why a guy would not want to date someone who is pure looking and pure hearted is because the guy is worried about getting laughed at by their friends, but I really do not know. That is why I am here to get a guy's point of view on this topic.
Please be kind with your advice/answers to my question/s.
Thank you.
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Old 04-13-2012, 04:10 PM
 
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post a pic of yourself
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Old 04-13-2012, 04:11 PM
 
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You've been watching too many Pat Boone movies.
Many guys like the tramp girls. A dirty mind often trumps the wholesome smiles.
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Old 04-13-2012, 04:18 PM
 
Location: USA
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I love me some Catness. She is so pure and good with a bow too
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Old 04-13-2012, 04:29 PM
 
Location: US
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Obsessing about purity enough to gush about is pride and a sin. Also a turn off. But no one takes the skanky girl home to meet mom. Middle ground!
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Old 04-13-2012, 04:31 PM
 
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If by pure you mean little makup no tats or nose/lip rings and no bags under the eyes.. I like pure.
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Old 04-13-2012, 04:47 PM
 
Location: Texas
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Yes... I like that and a good hearted woman so I consider myself
in good company with the other exceptions.
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Old 04-13-2012, 05:00 PM
 
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By pure do you really mean weak and wimpy?
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Old 04-13-2012, 05:15 PM
 
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Pure meaning...little to no makeup, plain....no tats...yeah I'll take that anyday.

Although lately I tend to desire someone with a good heart more than anything else.
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Old 04-13-2012, 05:26 PM
 
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If by pure you mean simple, uncomplicated, down-to-earth, lady-like, timid, innocent, sweet, delicate, demure, looks-like-elves-from-Lord-of-the-Ring, then yes, plenty of guys go for that type. It's probably one of the most irresistible types there is.
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