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Old 07-02-2016, 08:05 PM
 
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Lol you forgot? 28-34 would be fine. And 35-45 is fine.
Guys in their 20s make me feel old now. Even 30 is young compared to me. I won't be able to feel young unless he's 40 and over, and I don't think I've ever been out with anyone in that age range.
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Old 07-02-2016, 08:13 PM
 
Location: Pa
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Guys in their 20s make me feel old now. Even 30 is young compared to me. I won't be able to feel young unless he's 40 and over, and I don't think I've ever been out with anyone in that age range.
Wow I'm 38 and a month ago went out with a 33 yr old. I am attracted to older guys like you though.
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Old 07-02-2016, 08:21 PM
 
Location: So Cal
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I wouldn't be caught dead with a woman in her 20's, even if she went out with me voluntarily.
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Old 07-02-2016, 08:35 PM
 
Location: Pa
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I wouldn't be caught dead with a woman in her 20's, even if she went out with me voluntarily.
Me either.
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Old 07-02-2016, 08:49 PM
 
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When I remove the "socially acceptable" age filters on Tinder and just match up with who I want to, the guys are very young. But then I feel creepy about it so I unmatch them and focus on the ones in the socially acceptable age range.
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Old 07-02-2016, 08:54 PM
 
Location: So Cal
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When I remove the "socially acceptable" age filters on Tinder and just match up with who I want to, the guys are very young. But then I feel creepy about it so I unmatch them and focus on the ones in the socially acceptable age range.
I'm guessing based on your posting history that the younger guy thing isn't just because they are young and pretty.......
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Old 07-02-2016, 09:03 PM
 
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I'm guessing based on your posting history that the younger guy thing isn't just because they are young and pretty.......
No, it's mostly because they're young and pretty. lol Also less likely to have kids and current/ex wives.
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Old 07-04-2016, 10:06 PM
 
Location: H-town, TX.
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I wouldn't be caught dead with a woman in her 20's, even if she went out with me voluntarily.
If you can't swing it, it's a moot point. Otherwise, I can date 30-something single mothers, but I didn't walk the straight and narrow all these years to shovel someone else's shiite. I can't help who likes me and my cousin's GF claims that I don't even look 30. I'll take it.

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Me either.
Lezbehonest?
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Old 07-04-2016, 10:50 PM
 
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all relationships go by motivation

-it's just old men and young women is always a sick [bleep] situation,trading cash for [bleep] ,like it makes him the man.
no it doesn't.

-lot of them are going after girls they were too broke to get and fulfilling teenage boy fantasies ,having never grown up.the young woman almost ALWAYS has another man--i am a young woman so don't argue me down on this

-for the most part though ,age gap is a problem because you only relate in the bedroom and nothing else beyond.you can be that fool if you want,i won't stop you

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Old 07-05-2016, 12:21 AM
 
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So I have browsed CD before but this topic got me to finally make an account because it really pertains to my situation. I am 30 and my woman coming on two years now is 43. We actually met through an online game and started talking and only lived about an hour away.

After much convincing I got her to agree to a date and we met and I found her absolutely amazing! Not just for her body (which believe me is great and plenty better than lots of women my age), but her mind and personality as well. Apart from the fact we can both discuss video games and what we play I love her confidence, intelligence and so many other things about her.

I have dated and been with women my age even ones most would consider quite beautiful but there is so much more than that. I moved into her home a little over a year since we started dating. I do a lot of the physical work and do contribute to expenses of course. But I can honestly say never before have I been with a woman that truly makes me as happy as her. We still play our online game together and can talk about so much. We are both also into fitness and will hike, go on runs together etc.

I love her so much and just want to make her happy. One thing that is nice is that she doesn't get upset over things that younger women tend to. By that I mean we both enjoy our personal space as much as being together but she has lots of her own hobbies and just because we are together and living together we have to be together 24/7. Like lots of other guys I have my "man cave" but she never complains about it or gets all "why don't you spend more time with me!?!?" like lots of younger women tend to do and my same age girlfriends have. NOTE: I realize not all younger women are like that but I am sure being older helps.

So anyway, just wanted to tell my story. I know I may be in the minority but I am very happy!
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