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Old 04-18-2012, 06:52 AM
 
Location: DFW
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That's a good way of putting it.
And if you can't let it go you've doomed your relationship to fail. All that is important is the here and now.
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Old 04-18-2012, 07:25 AM
 
Location: Oxford, England
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And if you can't let it go you've doomed your relationship to fail. All that is important is the here and now.
I agree. Jealousy has to be the most self destructive, soul destroying thing for you and the most off putting and frustrating thing for the person at the receiving end of it.

Any relationship has to be based on trust and respect IMO. If you are eaten up by fantasist scenarios day and night I suspect one person will eventually crack and leave.

I tend to take Hubby as I find Him.

If or when he ever gives me reason to be suspicious or ever makes me feel "inferior" and as though he is comparing me to a past ex then I will cross that bridge if it ever presents itself.

No point in imagining things and putting both of us under pressure. I would rather deal with real situations and any actual issue we might have here and now. He gives me no cause to feel jealous so why should I ? What a waste of emotional energy.
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