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Old 04-16-2012, 11:31 AM
 
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Simple question. Women who are very faithful when they are in a relationship, however, when they are single-all bets are off. Do men view women with many sexual partners as untrustworthy? Obviously this SHOULD be a case by case scenario...but I have a feeling it's not.

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Old 04-16-2012, 11:36 AM
 
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You said it - they are very faithful when they are in a relationship. So obviously they are trustworthy. If you can't trust them when you see that they are trustworthy, then perhaps you are not!
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Old 04-16-2012, 11:37 AM
 
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how is that relevant to faithfulness?
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Old 04-16-2012, 11:39 AM
 
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I have seem some women, and men, with a wilder sexual past settle down and be monogamous....at least it APPEARS that way. I think it eventually dawns on them that their choices are fewer and that they are getting closer to "hitting the wall."
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Old 04-16-2012, 11:44 AM
 
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Can a women have a varied sexual past and still be considered trustworthy?
Are you kidding. Any woman who has ever had sex before with anyone other than the current man who is hoping to have sex with her cant ever be trusted to be faithful to their SO. Once a woman loses her virginity her body becomes a public playground for the masses. She loses all morality and self control until you marry her, then she never wants to have sex again. Quite a conundrum.

I thought everyone knew that.
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Old 04-16-2012, 11:46 AM
 
Location: On the corner of Grey Street
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Simple question. Women who are very faithful when they are in a relationship, however, when they are single-all bets are off. Do men view women with many sexual partners as untrustworthy? Obviously this SHOULD be a case by case scenario...but I have a feeling it's not.

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If someone is faithful when they are in a relationship, then why in the world would they be considered untrustworthy??
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Old 04-16-2012, 11:46 AM
 
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Simple question. Women who are very faithful when they are in a relationship, however, when they are single-all bets are off. Do men view women with many sexual partners as untrustworthy? Obviously this SHOULD be a case by case scenario...but I have a feeling it's not.

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Can a MAN?
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Old 04-16-2012, 11:48 AM
 
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yea if you said faithful in a relationship. if she shares herself amongst men DURING what is supposed to be an exclusive relationship then absolutely not.
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Old 04-16-2012, 11:50 AM
 
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Irrelevant. How she was before when she was playing around has nothing to do with the fact she can't be unfaithful.
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Old 04-16-2012, 11:53 AM
 
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Irrelevant. How she was before when she was playing around has nothing to do with the fact she can't be unfaithful.
Okay, I also believe this. However, I find some men tend to equate one with the other which is unfortunate.
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