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Old 05-26-2012, 11:06 PM
 
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I jumped onto this thread late and found it very interesting. It's curious why so many women here seem to have an obsessive need to proclaim to an internet site how attractive they are, how popular they are, how so many guys hit on them, etc.

Then, some of these same women are slamming other men for acting like "God's gift to women"?
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Old 05-26-2012, 11:45 PM
 
Location: Viña del Mar, Chile
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I always considered myself not intimidated to talk to anybody... I even said that earlier in the thread. I went to the a couple days ago and looked at this girl and said "holy **** I don't have a chance in hell" and thought of this thread and laughed.

It's really sad that CD comes to my mind quite often in my everyday life.. what can ya do
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Old 05-27-2012, 12:43 PM
 
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The person who doesn't put themselves into the equation is passively rejecting themselves. You can't win if you don't play.
Exactly. It is like business. You want to sell your product but are afraid of competitors.
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Old 05-27-2012, 12:48 PM
 
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Exactly. It is like business. You want to sell your product but are afraid of competitors.
No, that's not it. What I think she means is if you have low self esteem to begin with and you don't even like yourself all that much or have a poor self image, you've already rejected yourself.
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Old 05-27-2012, 12:53 PM
 
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I always considered myself not intimidated to talk to anybody... I even said that earlier in the thread. I went to the a couple days ago and looked at this girl and said "holy **** I don't have a chance in hell" and thought of this thread and laughed.

It's really sad that CD comes to my mind quite often in my everyday life.. what can ya do
Sooooo...did you talk to her?
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Old 05-27-2012, 12:58 PM
 
Location: Viña del Mar, Chile
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Sooooo...did you talk to her?


hahahaha! Nope, I can honestly say I chickened out on this one

This girl was like a 15/10. Maybe a few more months of my workout routine I'll be ready for her
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Old 05-27-2012, 01:00 PM
 
Location: illinois
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I am a woman and i feel that if a man is too uneasy around a beautiful woman then he has low self asteam .........not all beautiful women are the greatest......beauty does not mean she has a personality....I feel flattered when a man thinks im all that but if a man is too affraid of me then that is a turn off ......I like when men are full of themselves, those are the ones that know what they want and aint affraid to show it........just dont be too full of yourself....just a womans opinion.....
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Old 05-27-2012, 01:08 PM
 
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hahahaha! Nope, I can honestly say I chickened out on this one

This girl was like a 15/10. Maybe a few more months of my workout routine I'll be ready for her
Aw c'mon! I bet if you were charming enough, she wouldn't have minded talking to you. I mean I've had guys who were at least 15/10 approach me and get to know me too (I hate ranks but whatever, I'll use it here) and they were all over me and believe me, I'm pretty average, nowhere near that above 10 mark. It can be shocking, but then everyone's idea of beauty is different.
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Old 05-27-2012, 01:13 PM
 
Location: Viña del Mar, Chile
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Aw c'mon! I bet if you were charming enough, she wouldn't have minded talking to you. I mean I've had guys who were at least 15/10 approach me and get to know me too (I hate ranks but whatever, I'll use it here) and they were all over me and believe me, I'm pretty average, nowhere near that above 10 mark. It can be shocking, but then everyone's idea of beauty is different.

Hahahhah maybe you're right, Iit's not too often I'd say a girl is out of my league but daaaamn hahah, but you're right who knows maybe if I even approached her I would have had a chance, you just never know. Maybe she thinks guys who are studying Engineering are just the hottest thing since Brad Pitt
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Old 05-27-2012, 01:32 PM
 
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Hahahhah maybe you're right, Iit's not too often I'd say a girl is out of my league but daaaamn hahah, but you're right who knows maybe if I even approached her I would have had a chance, you just never know. Maybe she thinks guys who are studying Engineering are just the hottest thing since Brad Pitt
Exactly!
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