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My guy and I get together after a week, and it is intensity times 10x. He is going away for a month...we are afraid at our age the reunion might kill us. But we are looking forward to it.
I'm not married (if it matters to you for any reason), but I've always preferred quality over quantity in any area. In fact, constant sex is a turn-off to me - it's more like a chore and a work-out; both tedious and boring. There's more to life than that.
Generally I agree, but it depends on how infrequent "infrequent" is.
A couple times a week, sure. Couple times a month, yeah, probably...once a year...no.
Type B. But here's the kicker. When you say 'occassionally' just what does that mean to you? If you mean once a month(for example), then no! I want it more than once a darn month. Hopefully if you married someone, you enjoy the sex with them. That person should be able to give you good sex more than once a month. They were doing it before, werent they?
To me "infrequent" is a couple times a WEEK! And that's about where we are with kids. Yeah, it's usually pretty good, but truly mindblowing usually only happens when the kids are not in the same building we're in!
We did the daily sex thing for a LONG time though...basically from '01 till our first was born in '05. I certainly didn't think it was out of obligation!
I hate ridiculous threads like this. Same as saying "Which would you prefer to drink, a warm glass of homeless man's beer vomit, or a glass of dogs vomit with used tampons in it? The answer would be NEITHER!! How about choice "C" for this thread - Great mind blowing sex everyday.
My guy and I get together after a week, and it is intensity times 10x. He is going away for a month...we are afraid at our age the reunion might kill us. But we are looking forward to it.
I know that when my husband and I get a chance to take a romantic weekend trip every few months, when my parents keep the kids, the sex is FAR better than at home.
I think its the allure of a strange place, plus not having to worry about a little voice saying "Mommy, I can see your butt!" and "Daddy, get your clothes on!"
And yes...both of those sentences have come out of the mouths of our daughter in the last 3 months. That kid's going to grow up to be a sniper, the way she can sneak in like that...and figure out how to unlock the door with a coat hanger. Sigh...
At risk of revealing too many details, my wife only likes it missionary. Always missionary. I'm talking AL-FREAKING-WAYS! To the point to where it's ridiculously boring.
She still likes it, but I've tried to do other stuff enough to know she'll just complain about it hurting whenever I mention another position.
What really sucks is she gets into it and I really don't understand why. It the same thing every time! For the last four years!
Hardly any oral either. Of course, she likes it when I do it (everytime) but there's nothing happening to completion. Unless it's me handling myself or it's inside her. (Feel free to edit that MODS if you need to)
We're married and I'm apathetic torwards it at this point. I get to play golf whenever I want for the most part, so that makes up for it (I guess).
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