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Old 04-20-2012, 12:16 PM
 
Location: Houston, Tx
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This thread is useless without a picture of the OP. I seriously doubt that black men don't want to date her because she's too dark, she might just not be that attractive.

 
Old 04-20-2012, 12:17 PM
 
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If this is the case then should i bleach my skin?
What would you do if most men found spotted women more attractive? ..I think most men are attracted to a woman who is confidant, and makes the best with what nature gave them.
 
Old 04-20-2012, 12:18 PM
 
Location: Midwest
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This thread is useless without a picture of the OP. I seriously doubt that black men don't want to date her because she's too dark, she might just not be that attractive.
And implying that I am ugly is going to make things better huh?
 
Old 04-20-2012, 12:18 PM
 
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Skin color is an issue that affects me. Maybe its not a problem for you. But where I'm from its a very big deal
Then move or change your thinking. Life really is quite simple at times. In a couple of southern states (US) it's about the butt. So it's always something.
I'm glad I'm a man and could care less what other people think.
 
Old 04-20-2012, 12:18 PM
 
Location: Center of the universe
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This thread is useless without a picture of the OP. I seriously doubt that black men don't want to date her because she's too dark, she might just not be that attractive.
Yup.........If she were black as the dark of night and fine, she'd be complaining because so many men hit on her.
 
Old 04-20-2012, 12:19 PM
 
Location: Midwest
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Yup.........If she were black as the dark of night and fine, she'd be complaining because so many men hit on her.
then how come the men don't post these really dark and beautiful women in the threads around here? all i see are photos of white and hispanic women.
 
Old 04-20-2012, 12:20 PM
 
Location: NC
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I'm sorry, but this is just one of many threads you've started on your negative self-image.
Please get some professional help.

It's not your skin, your education, etc.
It's simply that you don't accept yourself and until you do, nothing you do to change your appearance will attract people.

Please, stop putting yourself through this pain.
It must be sheer agony for you.
There is nothing that a forum, especially CD, can do to help you.

Please seek professional help.
She said it all here....
 
Old 04-20-2012, 12:22 PM
 
Location: Midwest
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apparently, i'm just ugly. I guess I should get plastic surgery to make me beautiful then
 
Old 04-20-2012, 12:24 PM
 
Location: SoCal - Sherman Oaks & Woodland Hills
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You sound very racially mixed. And you're a male? That's why.
I think at the core of this is that you are just not happy with yourself that is all.
Well, maybe I am racially mixed but my sister has never had any problems. Heck, a Saudi Prince once asked her to marry him (wish she did). Point is, everyone is different and have differing tastes, yeah, my grandmother is half black, my father is just about as mississippi red necky and red hair and freckles as you can get (even though I think there is some black or something somewhere else in his gene pool). And growing up in south cental L.A. I got called "white boy" a lot but that didnt make me want to go put black shoe polish on my face.

I interviewed a gal not too long ago from some African country (cant remember) and she was BEAUTIFUL. Im talking world class All Pro BEAUTIFUL. Not only on the outside, but inside as well. She was DARK skin-ded (as you would say) and flat out totally beautiful. I dont think she is walking around hating "light skin-ded" (as you probably say) black women.
 
Old 04-20-2012, 12:25 PM
 
Location: Houston, Tx
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then how come the men don't post these really dark and beautiful women in the threads around here? all i see are photos of white and hispanic women.
People like what they like. I'm black and I'm in love with Kim Kardashian. Does that make me the devil? But I also think that Mia Campbell is beautiful (before she became a meth attic).

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