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So far my new habit breaking has gone well, I've been so busy with a lot of new things in my life that dating hasn't been on the brain too much. My goal of breaking my desire to want to date 100% completely is going to be a work in progress but I just have to maintain self control.
That being said, I almost asked a girl last night to have a drink with me or even thought about throwing her my business card (that has my personal cell number on it) and telling her to give me a holler sometime. I did stop myself, but the initial desire to make a move was still there. I will no longer make effort or first moves. If a girl were to ask me out or something I'd be totally game, but let's be realistic: that almost never happens.
Anyway, just keeping you all up to date since someone requested I keep updating my situation. Best of luck to those who are pursuing or trying to improve their relationships!
That, plus women typically want men to be the pursuers. I know that apparently, on this forum, many say otherwise, but from my personal experience and that of the women I have known, they don't want to make the first moves.
I'll approach a man, ask him for his number, set up a date. No biggie, but I'm probably not approaching the type that refuses to approach (typical feminine behavior).
That, plus women typically want men to be the pursuers. I know that apparently, on this forum, many say otherwise, but from my personal experience and that of the women I have known, they don't want to make the first moves.
Unless the men in question are short, ugly, or girly. Then it's EEEEEEEEEEWWWWW... creepy!
Good work, Chi-turtle. Don't give in to the lunacy that is dating.
I'll approach a man, ask him for his number, set up a date. No biggie, but I'm probably not approaching the type that refuses to approach (typical feminine behavior).
We 'creepy' losers need more women like you.
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