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Old 04-26-2012, 05:16 PM
 
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I heard a story about a woman who used to be straight but became a lesbian. Apparently her ex husband used to abuse her alot, then she found out that she got a life threatening STD from him. Sometimes when a woman goes through a disastrous relationship, they go for the complete opposite in their future relationships. Whether it is a different race, or gender or whatever. I don't necessarily agree with it, but this is the case sometimes.

 
Old 04-26-2012, 05:18 PM
 
Location: Texas
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Um, I have heard many straight women complain about men and openly discuss contemplating switching to women, but I have never known anyone who has done this.
 
Old 04-27-2012, 07:14 AM
 
Location: Lower east side of Toronto
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No such thing as bi-sexual. Just people that are lazy and don't want any responsibility ...just cheap comfort anywhere they can find it....I suspect that the woman who started this thread...is just fishing for female company and more...and probably never dealt with males to begin with..Most believe that gay men or woman only search out the same...The greatest prize for a gay man or woman is to score a straight person..

We used to joke about lesbians in regards to girlfriends that we broke up with...."Men are so bad...come here dear and let me show you what love is about"----lesbians who seek out broken hearted straight females are predators and not your friend.
 
Old 04-27-2012, 08:03 AM
 
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Thought about it but never did
 
Old 04-27-2012, 09:48 AM
 
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No such thing as bi-sexual. Just people that are lazy and don't want any responsibility ...just cheap comfort anywhere they can find it....I suspect that the woman who started this thread...is just fishing for female company and more...and probably never dealt with males to begin with..Most believe that gay men or woman only search out the same...The greatest prize for a gay man or woman is to score a straight person..

We used to joke about lesbians in regards to girlfriends that we broke up with...."Men are so bad...come here dear and let me show you what love is about"----lesbians who seek out broken hearted straight females are predators and not your friend.
In my mind, you occupy some gray, drab, seedy world, where everyone is up to no good and lots of people chew on toothpicks.

It's the only explanation for your ridiculously consistent asinine posts.
 
Old 04-27-2012, 11:50 AM
 
Location: USA
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No such thing as bi-sexual. Just people that are lazy and don't want any responsibility ...just cheap comfort anywhere they can find it....I suspect that the woman who started this thread...is just fishing for female company and more...and probably never dealt with males to begin with..Most believe that gay men or woman only search out the same...The greatest prize for a gay man or woman is to score a straight person..

We used to joke about lesbians in regards to girlfriends that we broke up with...."Men are so bad...come here dear and let me show you what love is about"----lesbians who seek out broken hearted straight females are predators and not your friend.
"The greatest prize for a gay man or woman is to score a straight person."

I can see that happening but I bet it doesn't happen much with a very "Straight" Person, more with people in the "Grey" area.
Here's my take:

The few times Ive had Gay men approach me at the bar they have been quite courtious. Along the line of asking: "Our you straight?", followed with a "Dam, thats too bad". I have never taken it badly. I don't know any openly Bi men so I'm not sure of the interactions of Bi-men and Gay-men? I would be interested though.

Haven't seen any Lesbians going hard core after straight woman but I have seen more then one Bi-curious acquaintance being pursued by a stud. I don't blame the Lesbian when the girl is sending the signals and flirting with her to no end. The odd part to me is the same Bi-girl going hot and heavy after a guy the following week end, then going home with him. I'm sure it's just as confusing to the Lesbian girls as a straight? "Game card anyone?"

In the end Straight people and Gays alike like knowing who their dealing with. It's not so much about being open minded so much as being free from confusion. And theirs a lot of room for that!

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Old 04-27-2012, 12:22 PM
 
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No such thing as bi-sexual. Just people that are lazy and don't want any responsibility ...just cheap comfort anywhere they can find it....I suspect that the woman who started this thread...is just fishing for female company and more...and probably never dealt with males to begin with..Most believe that gay men or woman only search out the same...The greatest prize for a gay man or woman is to score a straight person..

We used to joke about lesbians in regards to girlfriends that we broke up with...."Men are so bad...come here dear and let me show you what love is about"----lesbians who seek out broken hearted straight females are predators and not your friend.

lol i don't which you have more of-ignorance or stupidity
 
Old 04-27-2012, 10:22 PM
 
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I multi-date men with no interest in relationships or committment. Dating for me is jsut something to pass the time doing someting fun.

If I wanted a relationship or marriage I'd pursue a woman as men in my country seem to be anti-woman, anti-American woman, and anti-marriage. I'd rather not have to deal with shifting through the guys to find which ones have no to low sense of those sentiments and then go through the tedious tiresome process of finding the ones that are attractive, interesting, fun to be around, decent and reciprocate.

I know many gals who have dated women and have relationships/marriages with them. Those gals got sick of hearing how awful women are, how American women suck, how women don't know what they want, how women don't want nice guys, and other whines/mansplaining.

Those that do engage in sex have partnered up with lesbians or bisexuals. They seem to find it quite satisfying saying it's far superior to any sex they had with a male. Not unsurprising seeing lebsian sex is about pleasing each other while heterosexual sex tends to be from my view about the female servicing the male or being used by the male. Lesbian sex with it's oral/manual sex and strap ons that can do things a human male penis can't would likely be far more orgasm inducing than hetero sex.

Those that don't engage in sex have partnered up with other women who got sick of men. They seem not to affected by their lack of sex life stating they get far more physical pleasure from masturbation that hetero sex was mainly about the emotional connection for them. Not unsurprising considering that going by statistics the majority of gals are unsatisified sexually by their partners, with vaginal penetration is only a 30% chance of inducing orgasm, how only 29% of women orgasm regulary through hetero sex and that's including all sexual acts, and the increasing mindset of 'her orgasm = her responsibility' amongst men. So it's not reasonable to me on a purely physical sense the logic of masturbation > hetero sex & vibrator/***** > dick.

All no matter who they partnered up with have said it's a more fulfilling, loving, and supportive relationship than all their relationships with men have been. They stated there's more of an emotional and mental connection and a sense of equality that they doub thtey could ever get with men. There's no ball/chain references, power struggles, checking other women out, porn issues, sex is a duty, don't deny sex wihtout a good reason (implying consent/desire isn't a good reason), or having to cater/service/please him with a subservient gender role.
 
Old 04-27-2012, 11:48 PM
 
Location: Tacoma, Washington
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Sometimes I wonder if I shouldn't just try dating women. I am so sick of the men in Dallas's SHALLOW dating pool, it's pathetic.

Just to clarify, I don't think people choose to be gay. But I do think a lot of women have somewhat....elastic...sexuality...and I've known only a few women who didn't consider themselves at least somewhat bi.
I have to admit there is some sexy looking woman in this world and I am glad they represent best in woman but I am not that sick to become bisexual. I rather be along then choose a woman ....
 
Old 04-28-2012, 01:54 PM
 
Location: USA
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Those that don't engage in sex have partnered up with other women who got sick of men. They seem not to affected by their lack of sex life stating they get far more physical pleasure from masturbation that hetero sex was mainly about the emotional connection for them. Not unsurprising considering that going by statistics the majority of gals are unsatisified sexually by their partners, with vaginal penetration is only a 30% chance of inducing orgasm, how only 29% of women orgasm regulary through hetero sex and that's including all sexual acts, and the increasing mindset of 'her orgasm = her responsibility' amongst men. So it's not reasonable to me on a purely physical sense the logic of masturbation > hetero sex & vibrator/***** >.
Can't speak for Lesbian sex since I am a man, but I can speak for my own experiences. If a woman can't get there with her man in the majority of the population it's because of two reasons 1) The man is not skilled and/or 2) the woman has a mental block. While stimulating certain parts of our anatomy provides the input, it's ultimately our brain the controls the response.

From my experience it's more along the lines of 90% of woman can get there conventionally. Sometimes it takes a little time to reach a level of comfort and sometimes it's just skill. On the other hand if she likes a strap on or a piece of plastic more power to her.
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