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not sure if you should break up over this, but I would definately put a stop to her behaviour. Tell her to knock it off and ignore her for a while until she appologizes. Tell her that is not cool and if she continues to do that, you will dump her.
This is my first time posting on this forum, lately I've been having an issue with my girlfriend
I've been with her l for about a year, we've been really close and we talk almost everyday. Lately, she's changed, she's been getting angry at me for no reason, says mean things to me for no reason. When she has a tough time or a bad day at work I always comfort her and aid her. However, she never really seems to care about what I go through or whenever I need some clarity on a situation she never really cares.
We argued earlier this week and I told her I needed time to think and that I won't be answering an texts or phone calls, she gets pissed and cusses me out for no reason. I don't want to yell at her but she is getting to the point where I can't deal with her anymore. What should I do?
Sounds to me like its "break time" for you and your girl. Everyone has bad days, good days, average days and I don't think I know of one couple who does not have words from time to time. Explain to her that you need a break and feel that she may have some things on her mind that she needs to work through. Don't be her whipping post while she works thru this stuff, just walk away for a time and get your head back on straight.
You are obviously young so don't put all your eggs in one basket just yet. You will be surprised how many women there are available out there; women who will listen to what's up with your day and how you are feeling.
Good luck with this. It's not the end of the world, trust me. Just yet another "bump" in a relationship that will work out and if not then its good you find out early on.
Sounds like you aren't sure that you even like her as a person anymore. Before you make any decisions, why don't you find out exactly what went wrong? Maybe it would help your next relationship. If you really can't stand her as a person, then it's probably time to move on.
Dump that girl! Take it from a guy who's wasted a lot of time on girls like yours.
So are you in a long distance relationship? If so you have no idea what may be going on with her and you just might be the brunt of something totally unlrelated to you.
How far apart are you? Can you go see her?
Thing is, I've tried to reason with her, she is nice and funny, but sometimes she just changes gets mad. It's getting to the point where I've been feeling miserable
So, reflect and ask yourself, Do I feel good most days and have some bad days or am I miserable most days and feel good only some days. What ever feeling seems to dominate the majority of your days is a strong indicator of whether this relationship is a positive or negative thing in your life.
Sure, by all means make an effort to communicate and ask her why she's acting like this. I would suggest that to anyone in this quandry. If she is non responsive or it continues then I would make an exit before you start getting consumed by bad feelings on more days than not.
I'm sensing some reluctance, although you haven't said it, about the possiblity of ending this situation. What is it that is stopping you? Are you tolerating things because you don't want to be alone? Don't set yourself up to be table scraps. Ask yourself, If any of my other friends treated me this way, what would I feel and do?
This is my first time posting on this forum, lately I've been having an issue with my girlfriend
I've been with her l for about a year, we've been really close and we talk almost everyday. Lately, she's changed, she's been getting angry at me for no reason, says mean things to me for no reason. When she has a tough time or a bad day at work I always comfort her and aid her. However, she never really seems to care about what I go through or whenever I need some clarity on a situation she never really cares.
We argued earlier this week and I told her I needed time to think and that I won't be answering an texts or phone calls, she gets pissed and cusses me out for no reason. I don't want to yell at her but she is getting to the point where I can't deal with her anymore. What should I do?
I would say either she is having a paricularly hard time right now or she is over you and not able to split up for some reason. I would do just what you said and not answer the phone or any texts for awhile. If she continues to act the way she has when you are back in touch with her then I would call it quits.
This is my first time posting on this forum, lately I've been having an issue with my girlfriend
I've been with her l for about a year, we've been really close and we talk almost everyday. Lately, she's changed, she's been getting angry at me for no reason, says mean things to me for no reason. When she has a tough time or a bad day at work I always comfort her and aid her. However, she never really seems to care about what I go through or whenever I need some clarity on a situation she never really cares.
We argued earlier this week and I told her I needed time to think and that I won't be answering an texts or phone calls, she gets pissed and cusses me out for no reason. I don't want to yell at her but she is getting to the point where I can't deal with her anymore. What should I do?
No one needs that nonsense. If she cannot tell you what is bothering her, then she can live a life without you in it. It is grossly unfair to exhibit bad behavior like that. Just because something is bothering her does not give her the right to treat you badly.
I wouldn't tolerate someone who swears at me like that... show her the door and tell her it's one-way.
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