young women, older man... (long-term, child, mature, experiences)
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^kate upton is 19. there isn't a heterosexual man alive that would turn her down because of her age. i'm in my 20's and i would fertilize all of her eggs.
Sorry but I think that's just gross.You're old enough to be her father. Creepy.
And peopel the same age as you are old enough to be your sibling. The important point to note however is they are NOT your sibling. Nor is that guy the girls father. As such they are doing nothing wrong. The only person creepy therefore is the one who looks at two people in love and their mind goes directly to the topic of incest. I would get that checked out if I were you.
Sorry but I think that's just gross.You're old enough to be her father. Creepy.
She was very sub. I guess she was looking for a father type in her life. After she and I moved on she ended up marrying, at 22, a 52 year old guy. I see them on occasion, her on the back of his bike laughing and having a good time. She even calls him "daddy."
She found a relationship where she was happy. Can you say the same?
This is interesting as mostly men are posting....but as a women in her late 20s, I date older guys. Sometimes 2 years older, but have gone as far as 16yrs older. Once both people are over 18, Age is nothing but a #! If you can enjoy one another's company and appreciate the differences as well as the things you have in common that is what is important.
Of course, I was also a mother at 20yrs old, therefore as bignutz states: " While I think some of this could change once you have a kid since this tends to refocus your priorities as a couple, and it also tends to make young women more grounded right away, I think that as a result of the age difference you will just have to get use to adjusting to the difference preferences due to being in different stages of your life. But it's workable as long as you keep growing and nuturing the love and respect you have for one another." I very much agree...well said!! = )
Do what makes you happy, the best thing to do is spend time together & enjoy one another, why rush things? If things develop further..wonderful, and if they don't take what you have learned (pick up the broken pieces, if there are any) and move on with that extra bit of wisdom.
People will find a reason to talk crap,regardless, if that is who they are...forget them and do what makes you happy. Because at the end of the day if you can sleep well at night and she can too..that is what matters, not what others think, say or do!!
**Life is short, be as happy as possible!!**
She was very sub. I guess she was looking for a father type in her life. After she and I moved on she ended up marrying, at 22, a 52 year old guy. I see them on occasion, her on the back of his bike laughing and having a good time. She even calls him "daddy."
She found a relationship where she was happy. Can you say the same?
I am happily married, my husband is 8 years older than me and there are times I wish the gap was smaller,only because he talks about the 80s and 90s fun times he had as a college/grad student and I was still weathering junior high and high school those years...but we love each other and found a ton of other things in common.
So, Legal diva, It's not for you... why then does it bother you that other people are happy?
Why does someone have to have ISSUES in order to be in a situation you find distasteful?
majority of these men don't even take these young girls seriously, it's a joke to them and sometimes to the girl too. May not be right but I laugh like hell when she bleeds him dry and then takes off before he can ditch her for the next young'n. They get all caught up in the girl's looks that's their problem, not hers. Seen it happen a few times. LOL.
So I met this woman, she great, beautiful, fun, and so full of life! Wonderful laugh...I met her about six months ago, and recently we starting dating...she's 21 and I'm 36....is that too much of a difference, I think it is...I don't know , give me ur thoughts...
age is JUST a number ...... go for it.
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