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Originally Posted by imokay
Obviously you're not exercising enough or you're eating too much. Either way it shows laziness, either physical or of will.
The more you eat the higher the demand for food, which raises prices. I'm not blaming the higher food prices on fat people, but they sure don't help. Besides, more money spent on healthcare means less money available to fight pollution, which means more climate change, which means higher food prices.
By the way, when you find your (hopefully) human brain, put it back where it belongs and don't eat it.
I'll bet you would NOT repeat this to my face if you were standing in front of me. May I also add though I'm overweight not all my mass is fat and I'm also 6'5?
Nah dude. You need professional help. Since posting on this thread, do you think the world has changed? Do you think that people are going to be any less fatter tomorrow because you hate them? Get real, your wasting your breath. You hate fat people yes we get it, but you need to control your anger because you will continue to see fat people when ever you walk outside the house. I would not be surprise if I hear about you on the news going on a shooting rampage targeting fat people when you could've just gotten over it.
Look, if you can't make a valid argument you can shut up. Making assumptions is pathetic.
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Originally Posted by The Dissenter
I'll bet you would NOT repeat this to my face if you were standing in front of me. May I also add though I'm overweight not all my mass is fat and I'm also 6'5?
Don't bother trying to change her, if she wanted to lose weight, she would find a way. It has to come from within. It's no different than trying to get someone to stop drinking, stop drugging, stop gambling.
^^This^^. You have to decide if you can live with it or not. Most likely she will gain more weight over time. So make your decision now. If you break up with her, you should be honest about the reason.
I'm going to start snorting cocaine. She should accept me for who I am though, according to this board.
You're missing the point. The point is, you can't change her. You can address this from a point of concern. But if she's not on board, the time to bail is now.
Yes she was. So clearly there's something else I like about her that keeps me around.
Here's the thing. There are 5 aspects to chemistry that make for a good relationship. You have to have ALL 5 if you want to have a good relationship. Those 5 aspects of chemistry are:
Comfort
Safety
Fun
Passion
Mutual Respect
If she doesn't currently have a passing grade in ALL 5 for you, do her and yourself a favor. MOVE ON QUICKLY! BTW, a passing grade doesn't mean a "10" in every category. But be honest with yourself about whether she passes in all 5. If she fails in the passion category because of her weight, then she fails. Be honeset with yourself about it.
Here is the book those 5 qualities are based on. Written for women but most of it is equally applicable to men:
Look, if you can't make a valid argument you can shut up. Making assumptions is pathetic.
Ohhh, I wouldn't wanna risk getting eaten!
I'm just trying to help you out bruh, no reason to get butthurt. And just as you are free to express your hatred to fat people, I'm free to voice my opinion of you. If you put out hatred this is what you get back. Besides don't you have something better to do then to be angry at fat people. Get over yourself.
I'm just trying to help you out bruh, no reason to get butthurt. And just as you are free to express your hatred to fat people, I'm free to voice my opinion of you. If you put out hatred this is what you get back. Besides don't you have something better to do then to be angry at fat people. Get over yourself.
Again, ad hominems are pathetic. If you can't tackle the argument, don't attack the person who made it.
Again, ad hominems are pathetic. If you can't tackle the argument, don't attack the person who made it.
Well what would you like to see happen, do you honestly believe fat people are going to change just because some nut job on the internet hates them? It's pretty clear I'm getting to you because you keep responding.
Yep. You will need all the luck in the world. The stars will need to align. No matter how you approach it, she will percieve you as a bastard for even noticing. I've been there. I tried leading by example. Im active and hike and mountain climb, both of which are excellent aerobic activities. Offered to bring her along on easy hikes. No go. Still too much work. I tried to teach her how to eat better and once again lead by example. Nope. That was insulting to her as it implied she was fat. So then I offer to go to the gym with her. Nope. She said I was once again calling her fat. I never did so and was very positive so as to not hurt her feelings.
In the end no matter what I tried, no matter how I tried to support her or keep it positive, she had an excuse and was pissed I thought she needed to lose weight at all. Once she gained the weight we were doomed. I couldn't acknowledge it at all. But I am fit and work hard for it. I expect the same of them. According to her, being fat was something I was just going to have to get used to. Wrong.
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to my face if you were standing in front of me. May I also add though I'm overweight not all my mass is fat and I'm also 6'5?
