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I know there's been a lot of talk about him "using" me for sex, but honestly, I am REALLY REALLY enjoying the sexual side of our relationship and have been from the very beginning. So, I am not really sure how he is using me when I feel I'm benefitting from it so much.
For right now, I'm ok with him not being in love with me, I'm not in love with him, either. All I really wanted was a committment from him that we could be and act as a couple, mostly bc I don't like being in limbo in any area of my life, but also bc I know those feelings were there on both sides and I wanted acknowledgement of them. Now that I have the committment, I'm really ok with taking things slowly and just letting them unfold naturally. If we don't end up married, that's ok. I'm enjoying where he and I are at right now and if he's not "the one", I'm sure someone else will be at some point
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"The Continuing Chronicles of Two Very Lonely and Horny People: A Guide in Settling" ...
I know there's been a lot of talk about him "using" me for sex, but honestly, I am REALLY REALLY enjoying the sexual side of our relationship and have been from the very beginning. So, I am not really sure how he is using me when I feel I'm benefitting from it so much. I *do* appreciate the "warnings" that he might be using me. I know the warnings come from a place of not wanting to see other be hurt by someone's cruelty, but if he's giving me absolutely everything I want emotionally (and he is for the most part), if he's doing ALL that just to get some sex from me, I think I'm ok with it. lol.
For right now, I'm ok with him not being in love with me, I'm not in love with him, either. All I really wanted was a committment from him that we could be and act as a couple, mostly bc I don't like being in limbo in any area of my life, but also bc I know those feelings were there on both sides and I wanted acknowledgement of them. Now that I have the committment, I'm really ok with taking things slowly and just letting them unfold naturally. If we don't end up married, that's ok. I'm enjoying where he and I are at right now and if he's not "the one", I'm sure someone else will be at some point
Good attitude , not so much emphasis on the outcome. If you start to get emotional , its ok to figure out what you are feeling and share that with him
Im rooting for you
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