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Originally Posted by sierraAZ
Sure. Then you can say (depending on what time it really is):
- Hey, it's always a good time to get a cup of coffee. Would you like to have a cup of coffee with me?
- Hey, it must be 5 o'clock somewhere in the world! Would you like to have a drink with me?
If they say they don't have time now, you ask them to do it some other time and voilà !
However, the approach works if you have certain personality and aura... It's not really something everybody can pull off and those who ask such questions usually can't pull it off, unfortunately. It doesn't hurt to try, though. It may not work the first time, it may not work the second time, but eventually it will work on somebody. As it's pretty damn easy, what do you have to lose?
Damn, I could have all the chicks if I were a dude, if even I say so!
Yes, that's right...be good looking. That's usually the only time cold approaches are successful. If good looking, you can pretty much walk up to almost any chick and they'll be receptive to just about anything you say.
Thats kind of a tough one to pull off, If you dont have much going for you in the looks department. But working with what you have. Dressing nice and being well groomed will always give you a good first impression, even if you say the wrong thing.
Don't cold approach. You don't seem like the type who can pull it off well. Stick to meeting women through your social circles and common interest social activities.
This is probably good advice. Some guys have this innate ability and some of us don't. Small talk is not my specialty either so the cold approach just doesn't work for me.
I don't have a problem with people randomly striking up conversation with me. Though I do notice a common pattern amongst them: they tend to go on and on and on about themselves and their problems or accomplishments, they ignore the cardinal rule of conversation: it's a two-way street. No matter how interesting a person is, I would prefer if the conversation is as much about me as it is about him, and that he would end the conversation at some point.
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have no idea what the success ratio would be.
