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Old 06-17-2012, 10:51 PM
 
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Say you have been dating for 3-5 dates and end up having sex on either the 3rd, 4th or 5th date...

After this point do you end up having sex after every following date?

How many more dates would you need to go on before you invite the person over to just watch tv and have sex all day...
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Old 06-17-2012, 11:15 PM
 
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No. Just because you had sex does not make it automatic that you have sex on every date after that.

Come over for sex and watch tv? All day? Like, "Just come over and we will have sex all day?"....No thanks.

And my response after reading your post....was a big "Ugh!". Yuck. You are too much.

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Old 06-17-2012, 11:54 PM
 
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It matters.

What are the intentions? If you are trying to get to the 'watch tv and have sex all day,' it sounds like a friend with benefits relationship. After you guys finally have sex on that 3rd, 4th, or 5th day, DO NOT call/text her the following day. Be mysterious. She will be waiting for your call/text because that is what ALL the guys do, so keep her waiting and wondering where you are. Eventually she'll fold and send you the 'hello?' or 'hi' text and then your response will most likely determine the next setting. If she never responds to your NC, then she wants nothing to do with you. If you become in control, you can eventually get what you want. Tons of girls have a really high sex drive (porn shops are basically 80% for women) and being in control and not acting like the rest of what's she's seen and heared will lead you to that sex drive.

But if your looking for a relationship, watching tv and having sex all day is extremely boring to a girl looking for an intamite relationship and will NEVER happen ASAP lol. Down the road of the relationship, yes, but now, no.
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Old 06-17-2012, 11:58 PM
 
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^^^^Terrible advice from someone who knows nothing about women.

OP if you want to have sex all day, get into a relationship with someone who is attracted to you, trusts you and enjoys having sex with you. There is no formula.
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Old 06-18-2012, 07:18 AM
 
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sorry maybe i misworded the original post. i didn't have the intention of calling the girl and asking her to come over to 'watch tv and have sex all day'.

but i meant something like asking her to come over while i cook her lunch/dinner, watch a movie but then eventually have sex...
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Old 06-18-2012, 07:21 AM
 
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It matters.

What are the intentions? If you are trying to get to the 'watch tv and have sex all day,' it sounds like a friend with benefits relationship. After you guys finally have sex on that 3rd, 4th, or 5th day, DO NOT call/text her the following day. Be mysterious. She will be waiting for your call/text because that is what ALL the guys do, so keep her waiting and wondering where you are. Eventually she'll fold and send you the 'hello?' or 'hi' text and then your response will most likely determine the next setting. If she never responds to your NC, then she wants nothing to do with you. If you become in control, you can eventually get what you want. Tons of girls have a really high sex drive (porn shops are basically 80% for women) and being in control and not acting like the rest of what's she's seen and heared will lead you to that sex drive.

But if your looking for a relationship, watching tv and having sex all day is extremely boring to a girl looking for an intamite relationship and will NEVER happen ASAP lol. Down the road of the relationship, yes, but now, no.

Well, I THOUGHT I had heard it all, but this just makes me LMAO!

I HAVE to stop reading this stuff at work!
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Old 06-18-2012, 07:23 AM
 
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sorry maybe i misworded the original post. i didn't have the intention of calling the girl and asking her to come over to 'watch tv and have sex all day'.

but i meant something like asking her to come over while i cook her lunch/dinner, watch a movie but then eventually have sex...

You just basically said the same things. (throwing in a hot plate of food, doesn't change this, btw).
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Old 06-18-2012, 07:28 AM
 
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You just basically said the same things. (throwing in a hot plate of food, doesn't change this, btw).

Snort!!

OP, the "magic number" is 5. You must have sex with her on at least 5 different occasions before she will come over and have an all day orgy with you
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Old 06-18-2012, 07:32 AM
 
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Snort!!

OP, the "magic number" is 5. You must have sex with her on at least 5 different occasions before she will come over and have an all day orgy with you

....or 4 if he throws in dessert!
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Old 06-18-2012, 07:41 AM
 
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Well I think a women would be more likely to come over if you say i'm going to cook you something blah blah then just say like lets watch tv or a movie at my place
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