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Old 05-23-2012, 08:11 AM
 
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And what I really dont understand is why he keeps hanging around...After that incident of him standing me up last month...I decided to leave him alone and let him be...No calls, no text or nothing...He texted like 21/2 weeks later just saying hi and wanting to chat......I dont get it.
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Old 05-23-2012, 08:14 AM
 
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If a person keeps showing you they are not worthy of your time , don't give them any. If someone wants you , they don't act like this.
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Old 05-23-2012, 08:19 AM
 
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This is a repeat of her last thread - just a different guy, Same scenario...

Yet, she Never JUST SAYS NO....

Here's her Last Thread...

//www.city-data.com/forum/relat...-my-chain.html
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Old 05-23-2012, 08:19 AM
 
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I think you really went over the top grilling the dude about missing your meeting. Shoulds just let it be and take it for what it is. Youre not even dating, and if he has to spend an hour explaining himself to you for missing the date, he will likely avoid you going forward. It isnt the end of the world, you got stood up - happens all the time.
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Old 05-23-2012, 08:24 AM
 
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This is a repeat of her last thread - just a different guy, Same scenario...

Yet, she Never JUST SAYS NO....

Here's her Last Thread...

//www.city-data.com/forum/relat...-my-chain.html
Right , I read that. Not everyone you want will want you. Stop chasing men. Especially ones who are taken what do you hope to accomplish? To be the next girlfriend so he can dump you when someone else chaseshim? Come on op , you are too smart for this!
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Old 05-23-2012, 08:45 AM
 
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I dunno why you are a douchebag magnet or you really like douchebags but if I get stood up it happens once and only once. After I pointblank tell them they are douchebags. LOL. End of story.
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Old 05-23-2012, 08:46 AM
 
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im not chasing him...he initiated both get-togethers not I.>>>He asked and I accepted. And when i stop and cease communications with him...he wants to come alive.......
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Old 05-23-2012, 08:47 AM
 
Location: Suburbs Of Memphis, TN
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Right , I read that. Not everyone you want will want you. Stop chasing men. Especially ones who are taken what do you hope to accomplish? To be the next girlfriend so he can dump you when someone else chaseshim? Come on op , you are too smart for this!


^^Looks like you need to pick a new type of guy, Losers will always be selfish and treat others with little to no respect. If you respect yourself, people sense that and will attract to you. Raise your standards a bit, and I agree with maddog1, STOP CHASING MEN(imaature, selfish, cheatin boys)....
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Old 05-23-2012, 08:52 AM
 
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Maybe the men are the smart ones... She seems too damned clingy/needy.

After all - these men are Just "FRIENDS"... She's not "dating" them and look at how she behaves toward them....
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Old 05-23-2012, 08:52 AM
 
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I think you said enough. (and no you were not wrong if he made plans with you) Who likes being stood up?
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