Men , was it him or me?

[Chowhound]

Originally Posted by RiderGirl

Jeez, another thread about the SAME ISSUE? Maddog1, LET IT GO. Put a rubber band on your wrist. Any time you feel the urge to wonder why this didn't work out, snap it hard on your arm so it smarts. Then let it go and do not talk about. <rolls eyes>

This.

OP,based on the number and similar themed threads you have been posting lately, I suggest you stand back and take some stock. The info others have presented should be of some use to you.

I'm not being nasty, BTW, just saying. I'm a low 40's male to answer part of your initial question.

[maddog1]

Originally Posted by Chowhound

This.

OP,based on the number and similar themed threads you have been posting lately, I suggest you stand back and take some stock. The info others have presented should be of some use to you.

I'm not being nasty, BTW, just saying. I'm a low 40's male to answer part of your initial question.

I know , and I do know better than to talk about it anymore. Never happened , never existed. This forum has helped a lot and I am aware that there is a big lesson in all this , to recognise my short comings (not letting go being one of them) and improve myself. Thank you

[purehuman]

Originally Posted by maddog1

I know , I just feel I can get past it if I can understand. I know Im going to be ok , great even without him. Thank you.

maddog1...it's not that he couldn't/wouldn't love you....I think he just doesn't know how....doesn't sound like he had any good role models growing up....don't take it personally....his loss...and like you said...you'll do great without him