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Old 06-04-2012, 06:39 PM
 
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I did hear back from her. She wants to go out again. I’m going to let her tow the line for this one, since I planned the first two.

I still get this vibe that she's not really interested. She could be just shy or ?
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Old 06-04-2012, 08:03 PM
 
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DUDE! She called you, and said she wants to go out again. What part of "I'm into you" don't you understand? You mean, because she waited a few days? She was probably waiting for you to call her. Don't over-worry this. Just take the time to get to know her better. Play it by ear. That's all you can do.

P.S. This is EXACTLY what women go through most of the time, when dating. Wondering after the first date, "did he like me?" Waiting for that phone call. "He said he'd call me, so why isn't he calling?" etc. etc.

Relax. We tend to fret over the first few dates, get all wrapped up in our minds with worry. Relax. She likes you. You should be happy.
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Old 06-04-2012, 08:42 PM
 
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lol just go with the flow.. if she wasnt interested she wouldnt have called u back or asked u out again. The biggest question is.. do you like her? Is her personality such that you could see being with or is she just attractive?
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Old 06-04-2012, 10:22 PM
 
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Man don't play games.. See her when you can and give her 100% of your attention.
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Old 06-05-2012, 01:16 PM
 
Location: USA
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Awesome!!!! I did speed dating last night and actually met a woman who showed me a lot of interest. We exchanged info and I'm debating on when to call her. Probably call tomorrow and set something up. Fingers crossed for both of us!

Oh crap, just saw your last post. Man, the single life absolutely sucks. I know firsthand. Hang in there. Thats what I'm trying to do.

I have always wanted to try the speed dating thing. How was it? Is it something you'd do again?

And more importantly, did you make that call?
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Old 06-09-2012, 05:34 PM
 
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I did go out with her again this last week. I think the date went fine. I'm not sure when when we might go out next.
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Old 06-24-2012, 03:54 PM
 
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I just thought I would give an update:

We’ve been out a few times and she’s still too hard to read. One minute she’s lively the next she’s meh.

I think the biggest red flag is the fact that her longest relationship seems to be measured in months.

I’m throwing in the towel on this one and I’m just going to fade away.
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Old 06-24-2012, 04:01 PM
 
Location: Australia
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Awesome!!!! I did speed dating last night and actually met a woman who showed me a lot of interest. We exchanged info and I'm debating on when to call her. Probably call tomorrow and set something up. Fingers crossed for both of us!

Oh crap, just saw your last post. Man, the single life absolutely sucks. I know firsthand. Hang in there. Thats what I'm trying to do.

WTF

Why do guys DO this?

Just call her!!!!!
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Old 06-24-2012, 04:03 PM
 
Location: Australia
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I just thought I would give an update:

We’ve been out a few times and she’s still too hard to read. One minute she’s lively the next she’s meh.

I think the biggest red flag is the fact that her longest relationship seems to be measured in months.

I’m throwing in the towel on this one and I’m just going to fade away.

Sorry it didn't work out but you don't sound overly upset lol.
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Old 06-25-2012, 09:35 AM
 
Location: On the corner of Grey Street
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I just thought I would give an update:

We’ve been out a few times and she’s still too hard to read. One minute she’s lively the next she’s meh.

I think the biggest red flag is the fact that her longest relationship seems to be measured in months.

I’m throwing in the towel on this one and I’m just going to fade away.
Maybe you dodged a bullet. People usually are putting on their best front the first several dates so it's conerning she's hot and cold. I agree lack of serious relationships by a certain age is usually (not always) a big red flag. Better luck next time!
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