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View Poll Results: He should start hugging and kissing her:
After a few minutes 14 18.42%
After a few hours 19 25.00%
Not until the second date 14 18.42%
On the third date or it's hopeless 29 38.16%
Voters: 76. You may not vote on this poll

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Old 08-10-2012, 03:45 PM
 
Location: East coast-New England
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Why do your poll choices only go to the third date? This poll was obviously written from a male standpoint.



Thank you. I didnt vote as there was no choice I liked.
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Old 08-10-2012, 04:41 PM
 
Location: NYC
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if a chick doesn't like me enough for at least a quick smooch by the second date then i figure it's just not meant to be. i need a bit of that head-over-heels feeling on both ends

of course everyone has to come up with their own definition

and i wasn't that way ten years ago
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Old 08-10-2012, 04:47 PM
 
Location: Up in the air
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Hi stranger! I find you attractive. I would like to have sex. Would you like to have sex? Let's go to my place so you know where I live. Or we could go to your place because being isolated with a stranger in a strange place is super hot. You promise not to rape me if I change my mind or rob me when we're done, right? And if the condom breaks and I get an STD or end up pregnant, you'll be here, right? Awesome!
Sometimes I feel like I'm the only one who has this running monologue in my head. Men simply don't have as much risk as women do, why shouldn't I protect myself?
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Old 08-10-2012, 04:49 PM
 
Location: NYC
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All these "nice guys" have to do is figure out your number and push your buttons....then you're played.
what if she's an old rotary model?

guess i need one of those books the PUA industry is churning out
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Old 08-10-2012, 04:59 PM
 
Location: The Hall of Justice
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Sometimes I feel like I'm the only one who has this running monologue in my head. Men simply don't have as much risk as women do, why shouldn't I protect myself?
Hi there, random guy! You sure are attractive, and I would like to get it on as soon as possible. My friend drove me here, but that's no problem. You have a car, right? You look like a responsible driver. Oh, you're kind of drunk? I appreciate your telling me. We could get busy in your car. Could you ask your friends to come with us and keep a lookout for the cops while we have sex? I suppose we could go into the bathroom, but I don't know ... that seems so trashy to me. Do you have a condom? No? Well, okay. Just promise to pull out. Let's go!
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Old 08-10-2012, 05:09 PM
 
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Hi there, random guy! You sure are attractive, and I would like to get it on as soon as possible. My friend drove me here, but that's no problem. You have a car, right? You look like a responsible driver. Oh, you're kind of drunk? I appreciate your telling me. We could get busy in your car. Could you ask your friends to come with us and keep a lookout for the cops while we have sex? I suppose we could go into the bathroom, but I don't know ... that seems so trashy to me. Do you have a condom? No? Well, okay. Just promise to pull out. Let's go!
I like this one. For two reasons.
1. The sarcasm is awesome ! (I enjoy sarcasm)
2. This exact event in this exact manner happens EVERY DAY at the bars. (has to be the right combo af man and woman)
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Old 08-10-2012, 06:33 PM
 
Location: Earth
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You guys have terrible comprehension....Meh....I give up...you're too set in your ways and childish to have a conversation and understand anything! You have to twist words and put odd meanings to things that are crystal clear....keep doing what you've BEEN doing...it seem to be working...RIGHT?
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Old 08-10-2012, 06:49 PM
 
Location: NYC
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You guys have terrible comprehension....Meh....I give up...you're too set in your ways and childish to have a conversation and understand anything! You have to twist words and put odd meanings to things that are crystal clear....keep doing what you've BEEN doing...it seem to be working...RIGHT?
i actually somewhat agree with a few of your points but once you started tossing around the label "wh@re" you pretty much tossed any chance of reasonable discussion out the window

people seem to always want to deal in absolutes around here

and that "nice guy" line was just low hanging fruit, i couldn't resist. c'mon buddy
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Old 08-10-2012, 07:11 PM
 
Location: Texas
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Wait... Random hook ups with guys at the bar isn't every woman's fantasy?
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Old 08-10-2012, 07:17 PM
 
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What a stupid poll.

"YES this poll deserves to DIE! And I hope it BURNS in HELL!"

Last edited by BioMechanical; 08-10-2012 at 07:59 PM..
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