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Not every night , though the guy is always there. Go out once to a movie , once for dinner. Just here and there. Dont unhappily sit there. Really , you dont want marriage or when you do something nicer than Elvis , why to save money. A home down payment a better investment but Im curious. Do you truely not wish to be married
I'm always running around. I have an active lifestyle. But it is excessive. If we had a large place it would be one thing, but we dont.. When I bring it up, he thinks I just don't like his buddy which isn't the case at all. Im only 25. I'm a recent college grad. There are so many things I want to do. At this point I'd rather travel and enjoy life instead of fork over retarded sum of money for a wedding. I just want a good man that's there for the long haul. The certificate and ceremony have never been important to me.
Honestly I believe in this day in age people are always looking to run ... Every relationship has a honey moon or cupcake stage and after that it gets difficult. If you two can somehow come to an agreement and actually stick to it , stay . If it keeps going in circles its just going to get more difficult to you end up back on one of these sites like I did. Women need to be understanding of a Man's needs to be a Man . Also a Man need to understand a women are just emotional (meaning you like being paid attention to) Yeah I said PAID. No disrespect but your just used to having him to yourself and now that he wants some time with his friends your threatened , you think he may not like you as much , maybe he was playing you to get something...No , it's just that he is a man and women cant be that buddy we got to drink , watch the game ...Its just different some people have good friends like brothers... So that would explain why he is there everyday or he could be gay Lol no offence..
This guy is 29 years old not 19. Time to act like a mature adult and realize he's not single. He's in a committed relationship living with someone. Either tell him to buck the F up or get out. Obviously he still feels he needs to act like a kid and I don't see it going away for many years if ever. You're still young so get out and find someone who can act their age and not pretend their still in high school. GL
My boyfriend of three years says he is no longer happy. Recently he started saying that I am too controlling. I have controlling tendencies, but I try my best to be reasonable and considerate, especially ever since he has been pointing out my ‘issues.’ At times, I do get upset. In his world, there should be no problem if he chooses to play poker till daylight or if his (single) buddy comes over our house for extended periods of time nearly every day. In his eyes, he’s a man and he should be able to do whatever he wants. In my eyes, these things are not only annoying but they are inconsiderate, especially since we live together in small quarters.
Things weren’t always this way. For over two years, we had a great, happy relationship. I feel like maybe he’s just going thru a stage, and eventually he will snap outta it. I don’t want to just give up after a three year investment. We have so much in common and over the years we had grown so close. Plus, I’d hate to be back on the dating scene. Another part of me wonders if he was just infatuated with my looks and our many similarities. I am more attractive than he is, and he gets a lot of praise for having a pretty girlfriend. Maybe he isn’t made for a long-term relationship. I know I wasn’t made to be single. It almost seems like he doesn't want to get older. He's 29 and I'm 25.
Is this just a phase guys go through? Or do I need to have a chat with the landlord?
I hate to break this to you, but as "girlfriend" you have no rights to tell your boyfriend *anything* about his behavior. Either you are married or you are not. With the sacred vow of marriage you obtain the privilege of being able to comment on your opinion with respect to the behavior/habits of your husband. As an unpaid ho, you do not. Girlfriends are easily replaceable, as I suspect you will soon find out. Your boyfriend has no motivation WHATSOEVER to repair your relationship since you are infinitely expendable.
Perhaps the next time you will find a nice young man who will treat you with respect and honor and bother to marry you. Maybe.
Most people would not think that "Perhaps the next time you will find a nice young man who will treat you with respect and honor and bother to marry you", is funny. I guess if you have no concept of integrity it is.
Yeah, this is an odd place to get relationship advice. If u can connect with 1-2 people, your doing good. Disregard all others since they are on a different wave length but then again you all kinds coming to this place seeking answers.
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