How important is the number of lovers?

[nativeDallasite]

Originally Posted by Mexi-in-Arlington-Heights

So when it comes to possibly dating someone does the number of previous partners matter?

Not really, but I'd rather be with someone who has been in monogamous relationships.

I've found that men really HATE hearing about your previous partners and often don't want to know how many you've been with.

[Hatetheheat01]

Originally Posted by CitiBoy

If you are very careful their shouldn't be a problem.
Used?! True lovemaking is NOT being "used"! It is a mutual feeling that is shared. Besides if you really analize it who is really the user in certain situations-you'd be surprised.
I'm curious about something, if I may ask, how old are you?

Used- meaning most guys don't care to take the time to be in a relationship they just want to have sex. I'm 28.

[Picassine]

First I don't think it's anyone's business... I would never tell.. because I doubt any guy would want me.. LOL (anywhere from 300 to 400) so this is my dirty little secret...

[Roaddog]

Originally Posted by nativeDallasite

I've found that men really HATE hearing about your previous partners and often don't want to know how many you've been with.

You've got that right, "You slept with how many" "but,but,but, he's my Dad"