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Online dating is certainly not the place to go. I've met some women at happy hours, but am immediately placed in the friend zone. Any advice would be greatly appreciated!
They go to the same places other guys go to meet women: weekend hiking or other sports clubs, volunteer groups, yoga classes, grocery stores, the cool coffeeshop or teahouse in town, bookstores, book readings/signings, meet-up groups, etc. The only catch, like I tell anyone who asks how/where to meet women, is that you have to actually talk to the women you see. You have to be casually outgoing.
They go to the same places other guys go to meet women: weekend hiking or other sports clubs, volunteer groups, yoga classes, grocery stores, the cool coffeeshop or teahouse in town, bookstores, book readings/signings, meet-up groups, etc. The only catch, like I tell anyone who asks how/where to meet women, is that you have to actually talk to the women you see. You have to be casually outgoing.
Understood. Kind of difficult when you are repeatedly rejected though. Also kind of difficult to approach women, when many women have openly admitted to wishing short men wouldn't approach them as it lowers their "stock" or whatever.
Online dating is certainly not the place to go. I've met some women at happy hours, but am immediately placed in the friend zone. Any advice would be greatly appreciated!
Just wear your white coat or scrubs wherever you go. Women will hit on you like crazy.
Understood. Kind of difficult when you are repeatedly rejected though. Also kind of difficult to approach women, when many women have openly admitted to wishing short men wouldn't approach them as it lowers their "stock" or whatever.
Actually, if you are confident there shouldn't be much of a problem. We love men who are assertive. I actually find men with a bit of a Napolean complex to come across as quite sexy.
That's exactly what I mean. I don't have a problem with a guy who is shorter than me. I have a problem with being false about it. How do guys feel when they go to snap off that bra only to see it's padded or stuffed? But hey, if it makes a guy feel good about himself....
It's pretty hard to lie about it.
I can usually tell a person's height within an inch. So they're 5'7"-5'8" or 5'11"-6'0" for instance. You can get away with lying by an inch maybe. If you are 5'2" to 5'3" and you say you are 5'5", people will be able to tell you are stretching.
There are shoes that will give you 3-4 inches on top of what a normal shoe will give you. But that would just look goofy.
And if a woman ever fell for it, if you got her in the bedroom, and you took your shoes off, she'd be like WTF?
Online dating is certainly not the place to go. I've met some women at happy hours, but am immediately placed in the friend zone. Any advice would be greatly appreciated!
What is your height? Looks for girls shorter then you.
Of course some men and women are going to care about height... I get rejected constantly for being 'too tall'.
It's a bummer, but not everybody is gonna like you, and even less people are going to be attracted to you. The more you deviate from social norms (ie, too short, too tall, too skinny, too fat etc) the less people are going to find you attractive. I've had to learn to not give a crap because I'm awesome and it's their loss if they want to reject me for something as silly as my height.
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