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Old 06-08-2012, 05:49 PM
 
Location: somewhere south of Canada
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OP, you look fine!

People suggesting things to do with your hair, clothes, glasses, etc. are expressing their personal opinions on their "type" and are not a reflection of the population in general. I bet there are plenty of women who would love the way you look, just as you are now. All you need to do is get out there and find them

 
Old 06-08-2012, 05:50 PM
 
Location: USA
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Like Shootinig Star and neg said above, clothing, glasses, hair cut all go a long way. You have enough going for you that a minor makeover and clothing change would make you stand above average. Find out what colors work with your complexion. You are competing with a lot of other "Average guys" out there and what ever you have to do to stand out will help.

Like the advise to shortdoc in the other post, get a hold of a "make over or fasion consultant.
 
Old 06-08-2012, 05:51 PM
 
Location: NoVa
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OMG its one of the fat old ladies who thinks you are not bad looking!!!

 
Old 06-08-2012, 05:52 PM
 
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I think you have a nice smile and look like a nice guy.

Could you lose a few pounds? Yep, probably. But I doubt its a deal breaker for most women. Did you say how old you were? That may make a difference too, younger women may be looking for different things than slightly older women.
 
Old 06-08-2012, 05:59 PM
 
Location: Brooklyn, New York
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You arent bad looking I would suggest a new style of glasses and new clothes.
 
Old 06-08-2012, 06:07 PM
 
Location: Up in the air
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I think you're pretty cute, and you have just the build that I normally go for. No skinnies or gym rats for me

Plus, I love the nerdy thing. I'd much rather hang out with a guy who wants to go to a ComiCon or Maker Faire than hang out at the gym.
 
Old 06-08-2012, 06:09 PM
 
Location: NoVa
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Originally Posted by JetJockey View Post
I think you're pretty cute, and you have just the build that I normally go for. No skinnies or gym rats for me

Plus, I love the nerdy thing. I'd much rather hang out with a guy who wants to go to a ComiCon or Maker Faire than hang out at the gym.
=)
 
Old 06-08-2012, 06:21 PM
 
Location: Viña del Mar, Chile
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Please don't be jealous of the hot girls that the hot guys get. I've heard way too many times that those hot girls are not so hot inside. They're usually more work and drama than you'd want, most likely. And, they usually can't carry a convo to save their lives.

Just keep working on yourself. I think you're a pretty decent looking guy and when you meet the right girl she will think you're the hottest guy around.

Oh, and I like the pic without the glasses!
Not true, hot girls are just as nice and friendly as ugly girls.

So annoying hearing that dumb line. There are JUST as many nice hot girls as there are nice ugly girls and just as many mean hot girls as mean ugly girls.
 
Old 06-08-2012, 06:27 PM
 
Location: Up in the air
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Not true, hot girls are just as nice and friendly as ugly girls.

So annoying hearing that dumb line. There are JUST as many nice hot girls as there are nice ugly girls and just as many mean hot girls as mean ugly girls.
Actually, I don't find that to be true necessarily... the 'hot girls' I know tend to be pickier about who 'gets' to talk to them and tend to have an inflated sense of self importance. The average or above average girls tend to be a bit more approachable.
 
Old 06-08-2012, 06:50 PM
 
Location: NYC
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Not true, hot girls are just as nice and friendly as ugly girls.

So annoying hearing that dumb line. There are JUST as many nice hot girls as there are nice ugly girls and just as many mean hot girls as mean ugly girls.
You are 100% right. The notion that hot girls are b--hces in something that fat girls promote. At the end of the day, physical appearance has nothing to do with personality.
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