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I think that is the point OngletNYC was making, was that for now or currently your not interested in deep, loving, emotional connections with women. I don't think she was claiming that this interest or disinterest you have was or is permanent.
Now with that said, am I the only one thinking that for the last page or so this thread is going off topic and that we are starting to thread jack?
Duly noted and pointed out in my previous post
Back to our regularly scheduled programming ---- CHEATING HUSBANDS AND WHY THEY CHEAT
I apologize - most of what I know of him and his attitudes actually come from another thread. If you read those, you might see what I mean.
I was actually going to say the exact same thing. OngletNYC is right, he has not exhibited misogyenist behavior in this thread, but I did get that impression from him in other threads.
I apologize - most of what I know of him and his attitudes actually come from another thread. If you read those, you might see what I mean.
Let's not have thread or any other kind of jacking...
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Originally Posted by lovesMountains
I was actually going to say the exact same thing. ongletNYC is right, he has not exhibited misogyenist behavior in this thread, but I did get that impression from him in other threads.
If I am misremembering, I too apologize.
Yes, I have only commented based on this thread. I am not so great at following what people say elsewhere and I am way too lazy to search... I am only here for entertainment purposes.
Yes, I have only commented based on this thread. I am not so great at following what people say elsewhere and I am way too lazy to search... I am only here for entertainment purposes.
Can one of you guys try to coax Kudzu back? I fear I offended her on a bad day in her life and I feel bad about that and sad that she doesn't feel like she has anyone to talk to
Was talking to a friend about this very subject earlier today.
So much of life is a crap shoot. You know the expression, "the best laid plans of mice and men"....
In life, there are no guarantee's - you do the best you can to make the best choices you can and sometimes you still get hurt.
Getting hurt is just a part of life.
Some, like you, will try to avoid hurt by doing things like not getting married - but that doesn't mean you won't get hurt in other ways. Being hurt is almost unavoidable to us humans.
My philosophy is to embrace life - go BIG - take a chance on the most amount of happiness possible.
Sure that sets me up for some hurt in my life - but it's truly in the dark times that we learn the most about ourselves.
And by going big I frequently reap huge dividends.
Being wide open to love (of all kinds) has led me to a very rich life
I don't see any point to going to therapy at this point if he's going to keep cheating. Your only two choices are to suck it up, stay and deal with it until you both die, or to work on your financial situation in order to get out of this marriage and have some peace.
And by going big I frequently reap huge dividends.
Being wide open to love (of all kinds) has led me to a very rich life
That's because of who you are, loves. Marriage makes happy people happier.
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