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You guys aren't helping. Look, candy, you know what to do. Either do it or don't, the time to act is at hand. Are you just gonna let it pass you by? Or are you gonna make his day by reaching out and showing him you are interested? Fortune favors the bold, candy. Go get 'im. Nothing worse in life than wasting an opportunity like this. You will look back, one day in the nursing home, and think "now I am old, my hair is grey, my skin is crinkled. No one wants to ask me out. But when I was 15 this guy I really liked like me too...and I was too cowardly to do anything. What a loss. I sure wish I had at least told him I liked him, but it is too late, I didn't and we are both gonna die never having really gotten to be together. If only I would have asked him out." Don't let that happen, candy.
You guys aren't helping. Look, candy, you know what to do. Either do it or don't, the time to act is at hand. Are you just gonna let it pass you by? Or are you gonna make his day by reaching out and showing him you are interested? Fortune favors the bold, candy. Go get 'im. Nothing worse in life than wasting an opportunity like this. You will look back, one day in the nursing home, and think "now I am old, my hair is grey, my skin is crinkled. No one wants to ask me out. But when I was 15 this guy I really liked like me too...and I was too cowardly to do anything. What a loss. I sure wish I had at least told him I liked him, but it is too late, I didn't and we are both gonna die never having really gotten to be together. If only I would have asked him out." Don't let that happen, candy.
i liked reading that paragraph lol... because you are correct, especially the bit where u said we are both gonna die, knowing something could have been and i do need to either do something or not do something.
i don't know if this was a good start or not... because i still brought up the girl lol...
but i did message him today... asking about the girl..just to see his reaction
i said hows ur girl doing? and he said hes not talking to herr
so i did a shocked face and an oh no thas bad
n then i said there plenty more people out there
he then said just letting u know shes not my girl
he said shes only a friend
i jokingly said ye a friend with benefits
he said ye i like that idea
i said so u enjoyed the added benefits then (with that girl is what i meant)
he said he didnt get anything from her
and ended the convo there
he sounded quite blunt towards the end..,. i was joking and he was jusst giving me blunt straight answers :s
I truly don't understand this phenomenon (I've seen it before) where someone likes you a lot but won't let you get close to them. What is that? Why do they do that?
You are basically turning him down, so of course he's going to keep himself open to other opportunities. Obviously you're jealous of the other girl so you must like him. You almost sound offended by him dating other girls. You have a right to your feelings as everyone does but he has a right to date other girls because you two are not in a relationship. Don't let your jealous feelings get in the way if you really do want a relationship with him. He didn't do anything wrong, you've effectively said no so what is he supposed to do?
For god's sake leave the poor guy alone and let him find a girl who knows what she wants, has the confidence to communicate it and doesn't enjoy the thrill of teasing him with 6th grade games like that last ridiculous text exchange.
i liked reading that paragraph lol... because you are correct, especially the bit where u said we are both gonna die, knowing something could have been and i do need to either do something or not do something.
i don't know if this was a good start or not... because i still brought up the girl lol...
but i did message him today... asking about the girl..just to see his reaction
i said hows ur girl doing? and he said hes not talking to herr
so i did a shocked face and an oh no thas bad
n then i said there plenty more people out there
he then said just letting u know shes not my girl
he said shes only a friend
i jokingly said ye a friend with benefits
he said ye i like that idea
i said so u enjoyed the added benefits then (with that girl is what i meant)
he said he didnt get anything from her
and ended the convo there
he sounded quite blunt towards the end..,. i was joking and he was jusst giving me blunt straight answers :s
Ok that is not what I advised. Just forget this other girl, he doesn't like her.
Last edited by 1208; 06-11-2012 at 01:34 AM..
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and i do need to either do something or not do something.
