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My advice to the OP is to seek out academic and/or artistic women. Statistically, the more intelligent a woman is the more likely she is to be childfree. Also, people who are artistic tend to be less interested in children for some reason. You might try getting to know some of the people that support the arts in your community as a good start.
I hate kids and want to live a childfree life. I even told my brother that if he has kids, don't expect me to care about them too much. To some that may be cold and cruel but I am honest about it. But i realize that its a natural urge to want to reproduce, so I'm not disappointed at all. I know finding a woman who thinks like I do about kids is next to impossible to find.
Sorry to say that I just lost respect for you. Not wanting to bear children of your own is fine, but having the nerve to say that you HATE them is ridiculous. Hope you never find anyone that thinks like you do.
In the future when I have money and yes, there are groups all over like you stated
Theres no time like the present. For someone as adamant about not wanting children, spending a few hundred dollars to see that you dont ever have children seems like it would be a priority. How long does it take to save up 5 or 6 hundred dollars?
I hate kids and want to live a childfree life. I even told my brother that if he has kids, don't expect me to care about them too much. To some that may be cold and cruel but I am honest about it. But i realize that its a natural urge to want to reproduce, so I'm not disappointed at all. I know finding a woman who thinks like I do about kids is next to impossible to find.
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Originally Posted by MissLucky
Sorry to say that I just lost respect for you. Not wanting to bear children of your own is fine, but having the nerve to say that you HATE them is ridiculous. Hope you never find anyone that thinks like you do.
You're nothing but a pathetic POS.
Anyway, moving on.
Actually, the urge to "hate" children could be quite natural.
Many species of animals will kill another pack member's young to ensure their genetic line survives.
Although we have a developed society, these urges may still be within us on an instinctual level.
Theres no time like the present. For someone as adamant about not wanting children, spending a few hundred dollars to see that you dont ever have children seems like it would be a priority. How long does it take to save up 5 or 6 hundred dollars?
I doubt the OP is committed enough in his anti-children stance to actually arrange for his testicles to be interfered with.
Seriously, if you adamantly don't want kids, the whole "a vasectomy is JUST TOOOOOOO EXPENSIVE FOR ME!" line is weak. It would likely be the most worthwhile expenditure of your life, and as reproduction- related medical procedures go, it falls under the category of comparatively cheap n' simple. It makes me wonder about the actual strength of people's commitment to the childfe lifestyle when they're not actually willing to take the appropriate precautions to ensure that they don't reproduce.
Seriously, if you adamantly don't want kids, the whole "a vasectomy is JUST TOOOOOOO EXPENSIVE FOR ME!" line is weak. It would likely be the most worthwhile expenditure of your life, and as reproduction- related medical procedures go, it falls under the category of comparatively cheap n' simple. It makes me wonder about the actual strength of people's commitment to the childfe lifestyle when they're not actually willing to take the appropriate precautions to ensure that they don't reproduce.
Yeah if you have insurance, you really won't have to pay anything, if at all to get a vasectomy. Matter of fact, when I got mine, I didn't pay a dime out of pocket, it was totally covered. However, a doctor may not do it for you right away, if you are young and single and never been married. They may make you wait a while and think it over, before they give you the procedure.
Seriously, if you adamantly don't want kids, the whole "a vasectomy is JUST TOOOOOOO EXPENSIVE FOR ME!" line is weak. It would likely be the most worthwhile expenditure of your life, and as reproduction- related medical procedures go, it falls under the category of comparatively cheap n' simple. It makes me wonder about the actual strength of people's commitment to the childfe lifestyle when they're not actually willing to take the appropriate precautions to ensure that they don't reproduce.
Makes me wonder too. Especially since it is cheap and simple for men. After the birth of my 2nd child I was adamant abount never having another and refused to get off the delivery table until the dr. preformed a tubal. I told him to cut the tubes, fill them with concrete and burn the ends!
Just an FYI, I'm 25 and no one will perform tubal ligation on me. It's difficult when doctors dont understand that a women who has never been married or had kids would want the surgery @ 25. It's not a matter of just walking in and requesting it. I've had 5 OBGYN's outright refuse to perform the surgery.
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