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Old 06-14-2012, 02:30 AM
 
Location: Viña del Mar, Chile
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Originally Posted by PhenomenalAJ View Post
You shouldn't be such a rude jingoist about other people's cultures. I'm not black and I slept with a black woman, gonna harp on that too?

It's 4:30am so forgive me if I'm misunderstanding... but is this for real?

 
Old 06-14-2012, 02:40 AM
 
Location: Montgomery County, MD
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Originally Posted by burgler09 View Post
It's 4:30am so forgive me if I'm misunderstanding... but is this for real?
Are you Jesse Helms? I don't see what is shameful or immoral about sleeping with a black woman. I posted that as a gag but didn't imagine people would actually be so upset about it, I had sex with a woman with more melanin than me, get over it!
 
Old 06-14-2012, 03:08 AM
 
Location: New Zealand and Australia
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Nothing worse than we she talks all about herself and doesn't ask you anything. Its all about her......Lucky for me can only think of one or two dates where that happened.
 
Old 06-14-2012, 06:13 AM
 
Location: Corydon, IN
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I don't like it when every discussion turns into some form of competition, including when it's time to pay for the date. A good sign I didn't enjoy myself is when a woman gets insistent about paying for her half and I don't argue.
 
Old 06-14-2012, 08:20 AM
 
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Originally Posted by 007.5 View Post
I first get to know a woman BEFORE going out on a date thru belonging to the same Singles Group or an activity that we are both are engaged in. So, as im getting to know the woman in this venue, I compare my 'cannot have' list to the person to determine if they are a sound Dating prospect . These non negotiables include :

Smoking, drinking excessively, alot of negativity , whining, high maintenance, habitually showing up late , using foul language, inconsiderate , having past unresolved issues , dressing too provacatively , being too loud, being sexually suggestive in terms of availability , and being too desperate to have/get a guy .

If they pass this basic criteria, then Ill suggest a get together which will be very informal and without alot of bling . I would also hope the gal has a firm 'cannot have' list because to me this shows they have some integrity and character.
well said
 
Old 06-15-2012, 05:57 PM
 
Location: Fairfax County, VA
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High-heel shoes.
 
Old 06-20-2012, 12:30 PM
 
Location: Earth
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Daddy issues.

I won't date a girl who has never had a healthy relationship with her father or a father figure, or who doesn't respect her parents.
 
Old 06-20-2012, 12:40 PM
 
Location: New Jersey
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Originally Posted by PhenomenalAJ View Post
Are you Jesse Helms? I don't see what is shameful or immoral about sleeping with a black woman. I posted that as a gag but didn't imagine people would actually be so upset about it, I had sex with a woman with more melanin than me, get over it!

it's mostly considered unacceptable to non black men.
 
Old 06-20-2012, 12:51 PM
 
Location: Brooklyn,NY
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I don't date girls who smoke and who have bitchy attitudes.
 
Old 06-20-2012, 02:31 PM
 
Location: Infernuan
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Originally Posted by Doll Eyes View Post
it's mostly considered unacceptable to non black men.
Correction: it's mostly considered unacceptable to ignorant and backward non black men.
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