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Old 01-03-2008, 07:24 PM
 
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What difference does it make if a strip club was in your neighborhood? I don't understand.
You serious? There's a time and place for everything! (as long as it's legal ) and the place for a strip club is not in my neighborhood where my kids have to see it every day.
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Old 01-03-2008, 08:07 PM
 
Location: huh?
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i agree. strips clubs tend to attract unsavory types also and they may get too drunk and pee in your bushes or worse!
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You serious? There's a time and place for everything! (as long as it's legal ) and the place for a strip club is not in my neighborhood where my kids have to see it every day.
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Old 01-03-2008, 08:11 PM
 
Location: Menver, CO
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You serious? There's a time and place for everything! (as long as it's legal ) and the place for a strip club is not in my neighborhood where my kids have to see it every day.
Yes, I'm serious. What are your kids going to see every day? The girls entering/leaving the parking lot in the rear entrance? Clientele parking their cars and entering the building (just like anywhere else)? I don't get it.
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Old 01-03-2008, 08:15 PM
 
Location: Florida
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When we lived near a Naval Base... we had two strip clubs right outside of the base gates. I think it was a much needed service to many sailors. I'm even conservative and never found it offensive in any way.
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Old 01-04-2008, 06:37 PM
 
Location: Brentwood, TN
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Yes, I'm serious. What are your kids going to see every day? The girls entering/leaving the parking lot in the rear entrance? Clientele parking their cars and entering the building (just like anywhere else)? I don't get it.
well in that case, why don't we put one right across the street from the elementary school
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Old 01-04-2008, 09:58 PM
 
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1st, it is only your business if you choose to go to a strip club.
2nd, they are expensive. The women who work there view it as a job which is to get your money and that is all it is to them.
3rd, been there and done it before. My opinion, it is not worth it.
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Old 01-05-2008, 09:53 AM
 
Location: Nashville, TN
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What difference does it make if a strip club was in your neighborhood? I don't understand.
I assume you are either kidding or naive. Strip clubs are magnets for more crime, including drug transactions, robberies, and prostitution to mention a few. This has and can be documented by your local police department. It adversely impacts property values. There are also reasons why strip clubs are not allowed near schools. Do you understand now?
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Old 01-05-2008, 10:16 AM
 
Location: Temporary on Earth for a little while
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Hello,

I have another interesting question.


A while back I had a co-worker ask me if I wanted to go with him to the local strip club to chill out.

I had another co-worker (who is female) who overheard the conversation comment something that sounded like she wouldn't respect anyone going to the strip club. I ended up not going cause something came up but I was wondering on her comment ever since.

I could understand if we were married it would be disrespectful to your wife, but both of us are single dudes. It only for fun and to have a drink or two.

What wrong with going to the club and relaxing after a long week of work? What are your thoughts ? Do you approve or disapprove?

Which leads to my second question.

Do any of your ladies out there go the strip clubs? and why? to have fun and chill out? Right?



This answer depends on how people were brought up....(morals)
i personally wish stip clubs never existed....i lose respect for men that go there....its just my standards....
but to each his own i guess
On the other hand, i wouldn't be your typical girl either.
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Old 01-05-2008, 10:49 AM
 
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I don't approve of them...

1st men are weak in that area....it's like a drug to some and some cannot control it
2nd, you put one in a decent neighborhood with defenseless kids and the young parents are very worried and have every right to be.
3rd...I'm from an older generation, and while I know that to some they are harmless and it doesn't turn them on, there are others that it does...and that is the problem...
4 I always think of it this way...and say this to all the guys....if that was your daughter, how would you feel if that was her up there struttin her stuff in front of all these hot men?
If someone comes in and answers, well, that would be ok by me...well, then...ok

I do not approve of them....it feeds the sexual drive to a dangerous level in some
and lets admit it, men are men, and it is soooo difficult for some to keep their hormones in their pants...and their intellectual brain in check....sorry if I offend anyone, but sex, is and should be a very personal spiritual experience between two people....not exploited...for money, plus I wouldn't date a man who went to them...
it's really gross to me?

I always wonder when people post this stuff, if they are looking for approval?????


It is though your personal prefrence, and your right to go....but as for me....strip clubs brings out anything and everything from the darkness....ewwwwww
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Old 01-05-2008, 01:39 PM
 
Location: Temporary on Earth for a little while
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I don't approve of them...

1st men are weak in that area....it's like a drug to some and some cannot control it
2nd, you put one in a decent neighborhood with defenseless kids and the young parents are very worried and have every right to be.
3rd...I'm from an older generation, and while I know that to some they are harmless and it doesn't turn them on, there are others that it does...and that is the problem...
4 I always think of it this way...and say this to all the guys....if that was your daughter, how would you feel if that was her up there struttin her stuff in front of all these hot men?
If someone comes in and answers, well, that would be ok by me...well, then...ok

I do not approve of them....it feeds the sexual drive to a dangerous level in some
and lets admit it, men are men, and it is soooo difficult for some to keep their hormones in their pants...and their intellectual brain in check....sorry if I offend anyone, but sex, is and should be a very personal spiritual experience between two people....not exploited...for money, plus I wouldn't date a man who went to them...
it's really gross to me?

I always wonder when people post this stuff, if they are looking for approval?????


It is though your personal prefrence, and your right to go....but as for me....strip clubs brings out anything and everything from the darkness....ewwwwww




I AGREE COMPLETELY THANK YOU FOR BEING SO BOLD ABOUT IT....I WOULD GIVE YOU SOME REP POINTS BUT IT WONT ALLOW ME TO AT THIS TIME
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