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Old 09-24-2007, 09:26 PM
 
Location: Blankity-blank!
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And if you want me turned on - I like one on one attention - not fighting for it with a bunch of drunk women acting like idiots.[/QUOTE]
This has aroused my curiosity. Maybe I'd like to go to one of those places to see what kind of antics the drunk women acting like idiots do. That may be a great show!
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Old 09-24-2007, 09:28 PM
 
Location: Sherman Oaks, CA
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I've seen "Thunder from Down Under". It was a lot of fun!

I think it depends on how "into" it the guy is. Once in a while, to mostly play pool and hang out with the guys, fine. If he has to go every week, no matter what, then it's an addiction. Any addiction is unhealthy, as it signals a loss of control. No, thanks!

I'd be careful of what I'd say in a work situation, anyway. At my company, if a woman overhears a conversation like that, even if they weren't talking to her, she could claim sexual harrassment or a "hostile work environment" - no joke.
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Old 09-24-2007, 10:03 PM
 
Location: El Paso, TX
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hmmm - i'm don't know - I'm for them - I'm not really against them. I get it.

My husband likes porn but not strip clubs, he's been only for a bachelor party - and I think it was once. It's just not his thing. He'd rather chill at a pool table.

I think it depends on the guy - I had an ex boyfriend who was a complete ass. And he loved them - to him he felt like he had power or something - he liked to look down on women...

I have never been to a male strip club - I have ZERO interest - the kind of man I'm attracted to is not a firm and shaven...ewwwwwwww

And if you want me turned on - I like one on one attention - not fighting for it with a bunch of drunk women acting like idiots.
I'm moving to Seattle.. oh wait I'm Married.. heh heh and so are you.. damn. lol

sorry had too.
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Old 09-24-2007, 10:04 PM
 
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There is a difference between strip clubs and an exotic dancers, lets not forget that. Exotic dancers wear things, even if its not much, but they cant strip completely of anything, where strip clubs, the girls take off what that particular club is licensed to show. Very few clubs anymore allow bottomless, only topless dancers.
Heck, there days you can go to the beach or to the lake on spring break and girls in bikinis and thongs are dancing on the beach just having a good time! Same difference?
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Old 09-24-2007, 10:44 PM
 
Location: Pinal County, Arizona
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There is a difference between strip clubs and an exotic dancers, lets not forget that. Exotic dancers wear things, even if its not much, but they cant strip completely of anything, where strip clubs, the girls take off what that particular club is licensed to show. Very few clubs anymore allow bottomless, only topless dancers.
Heck, there days you can go to the beach or to the lake on spring break and girls in bikinis and thongs are dancing on the beach just having a good time! Same difference?
Hey, in Vegas, all nude is not that rare

And now, there are topless swimming pools (at various resort properties) -

Rent a cabana and bring your camera!!!!
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Old 09-24-2007, 11:27 PM
 
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I have no problems with strip clubs of exotic dancers. Frankly, I think our country is bit uptight on nudity. It seem to be so taboo. I think it's a cultural things because I've been to some pretty religious countries (Greece, Italy) and they seem much more grounded as far as nudity is concerned.
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Old 09-24-2007, 11:29 PM
 
Location: chesapeake virginia
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Smile :)

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If your married and goto these places.. so what.. most men don't get anything but a dance and then go home and rock their wifes world.
I couldnt agree more
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Old 09-25-2007, 12:22 AM
 
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I couldnt agree more
I wouldn't agree with that but as always, everyone is entitled to their opinions. I am wondering how my husband would feel if I would get a dance from the stripper (male)?
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Old 09-25-2007, 01:59 AM
 
Location: FL
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Strips clubs - Do I approve? No I don't. You wouldn't catch me anywhere near a strip club, and personally, I wish these types of establishments would disappear.
Thank you!!! I mean, I'm not the type that would want to make them illegal or anything, but it just seems SOOOO stupid! If I were a guy I'd just go pick up a girl & $#%^!!! What the hell is the point? It's like porno!
I'd rather be DOING it - not WATCHING! Seems pretty retarded to me!
I mean, it seems like it should be for people who are so shy or "unattractive" (I hate that word because everyone is attractive to SOMEONE!) that they can't get any, but EVERYONE can get some! And if you REALLY can't, that's what roofies are for!
Just DO it!!!
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Old 09-25-2007, 02:27 AM
 
Location: Coming soon to a town near YOU!
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Thank you!!! I mean, I'm not the type that would want to make them illegal or anything, but it just seems SOOOO stupid! If I were a guy I'd just go pick up a girl & $#%^!!! What the hell is the point? It's like porno!
I'd rather be DOING it - not WATCHING! Seems pretty retarded to me!
I mean, it seems like it should be for people who are so shy or "unattractive" (I hate that word because everyone is attractive to SOMEONE!) that they can't get any, but EVERYONE can get some! And if you REALLY can't, that's what roofies are for!
Just DO it!!!

It is really more of a difference between men and women. I suppose I could start ranting about how dumb it is for women to have 50+ pairs of shoes, or that shopping for shoes is only something suitable for "fat" women since shoes are the only "normal size" thing they can fit into. But guess what, it's just a difference between the two and it's not worth getting worked up over.

Men enjoy looking at attractive naked women (and for the most part the so-so women too). No need to feel defensive or ashamed... if our ancestors didn't think it was a neat thing, they probably would've been too busy farming ,clearing brush on the ranch or something else to procreate.

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