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Old 03-25-2017, 06:19 AM
 
Location: Northern Virginia
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I've never understood the whole strip club thing. It would be like going to a restaurant and watching someone else eat a great meal. Why would I pay someone to tease me? Besides, most of those dives are void of clothing, which is cool AND self esteem, which is bad news. Sounds like a bad scene to me.
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Old 03-26-2017, 05:11 PM
 
Location: Morgantown, WV
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Hate it.

What's fun about sitting around with a bunch of dudes while they perv-out and pop boners over the same girl? There's something genuinely weird about that...
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Old 03-26-2017, 05:21 PM
 
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Hate it.

What's fun about sitting around with a bunch of dudes while they perv-out and pop boners over the same girl? There's something genuinely weird about that...
Couldn't agree more. Plus I'm cheap!
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Old 03-26-2017, 05:44 PM
 
Location: Morgantown, WV
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Couldn't agree more. Plus I'm cheap!
That's another big side to it...I'm not going to throw money at women to take their clothes off and grind on me while other dudes watch and pop boners. I can think of a million better things to do.

And possibly worst of all is the buffet. Yup, gonna go eat/touch food where dudes are popping boners with each other
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Old 03-26-2017, 05:49 PM
 
Location: Western Canada
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When I lived in San Francisco my bf at the time and I would go out to high end clubs and he would buy private dances for us both. I always had a great time and really appreciated the beautiful women. I'm much less interested in that lifestyle now but but was fun when I was early 20s.
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Old 03-26-2017, 05:57 PM
 
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In some clubs you can touch the ladies. That adds a little more excitement.
They aren't bad looking
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Old 03-26-2017, 07:53 PM
 
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Other guys boners don't really cross my mind... whether at a night club, strip club, beach, or anywhere else.

I find that notion of thinking of others' boners more strange than going to a strip club....


It isn't required nor expected to get a lap dance at a club. It seems that a few posters here think that lap dances are sort of the requirement.. don't want one.. don't ask for one... simple as that. The experience is heavily dependent on the club; ranging from seedy to classy.

Houston, TX for example... there are rarely anywhere else classier than some of the high end strip clubs. In fact, they are popular places for business deals to be discussed and closed.

PS> I really wish people would stop ambushing their friends at these clubs with lap dances when they don't really want it. I know they think it is funny but dancers really don't like it when it is obvious that the person is uncomfortable... and obviously the person is being unwilling pushed beyond their comfort zone.

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Old 03-26-2017, 07:57 PM
 
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great post mike - as always!!!

I'll post on here later when i have more time
lmao
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Old 03-26-2017, 10:15 PM
 
Location: NC-AL-PA—> West Virginia
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sure man, id hit up the strip club if it wasn't shady.
I don't understand paying women who at the very most look less than decent to perform sexually explicit dances while fully clothed. I'm more into night clubs, which tend to be more professional and can frequent above average woman, unfortunately old people having a mid life crisis can also frequent the clubs.
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