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Old 10-31-2007, 05:15 PM
miu
 
Location: MA/NH
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To the women who equate pornography with cheating, let me ask you...

Are you willing to satisfy any and all urges your fella may have? If you are unable or unwilling, why would you begrudge him the opportunity to satisfy these needs himself?

Do you insist he not snack when you aren't around, and instead only eat when you're hungry, too?
I forgot to address this question. And yes, ALL of my boyfriend's needs are being met.
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Old 12-08-2007, 01:22 PM
 
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Default A strip club

Strip clubs are fine to have around. Just as long as it isn't in my neighborhood. If I want to go to one, I'll drive with some buddies.
It is what it is.
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Old 12-09-2007, 06:27 PM
 
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If you are married, no.

If you are single and not in a serious relationship, then yes.

But I personally do not attend strip clubs.
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Old 12-09-2007, 06:36 PM
 
Location: the best coast
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strip clubs are a legitmate place to kick back and relax.
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Old 12-09-2007, 07:01 PM
 
Location: Land of Thought and Flow
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Strip clubs... I've no problem with strip clubs being available for men and women to enjoy a nice alcoholic drink, see beautiful women, and enjoy themselves.

The dancers can make decent money. Some are hapless druggies, some are just doing whatever is necessary to make their life better. I've known a few dancers who've used this as a method to pay for college. I also know a few guys who've done this.

If my hubby wanted to go to a strip club, I'd have no problem with it. I know that he's a sensible man who wouldn't go outside the marriage. Heck, I might even go with him.
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Old 01-02-2008, 08:05 PM
 
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I don't go to strip clubs and I wouldn't approve of the man I am with going either.
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Old 01-03-2008, 07:51 AM
 
Location: Who knows
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If you are married, no.

If you are single and not in a serious relationship, then yes.
This is my take on it too...I don't really care about strip clubs or not. I've been to one once with my male friends and didn't really think much about it.
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Old 01-03-2008, 09:56 AM
 
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You're a single guy. Single guys go to strip clubs. It's all good in my book. The only thing is, it's not something I would say "outloud" in a work environment. No matter how you look at it, mentioning "strip clubs" in a professional environment is "taboo" if you ask me. I'm not trying to be a prude but you never know who you're going to offend these days or perhaps who may be standing over your shoulder. Personally, I think it's judgmental for somebody to have an "opinion" about you just b'c you go to strip clubs but then again, I don't really know a lot of people who do it on a regular basis.

I'm female and have never been to a strip club. I'm curious though so I don't think I'd ever be against the idea of going but both hubby and I are homebodies so I don't think I'd ever be in that kind of situation anyway! I think it's a waste of money ... so does hubby - he'd rather spend it on Star Wars Legos.
I "approve" of strip clubs! I am surprised however, that foma is the only one that mentioned what jumped out at me immediately in the OP... talking about strip clubs in a work environment is a HUGE, GIGANTIC NO NO!

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My boyfriend can't stand stupid women, so the average woman does turn him off just on initial contact.
It seems by this comment that you and/or your boyfriend think the "average" woman is "stupid"? Not being accusatory, just looking for clarification
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Old 01-03-2008, 11:05 AM
 
Location: Ocean Shores, WA
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I never understood why anyone would want to sit with a bunch of drunks watching strangers on a stage taking off their clothes.

But then I never thought lingerie was interesting or sexy either.
It's just fancy underwear.
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Old 01-03-2008, 11:12 AM
 
Location: Menver, CO
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Strip clubs are fine to have around. Just as long as it isn't in my neighborhood. If I want to go to one, I'll drive with some buddies.
What difference does it make if a strip club was in your neighborhood? I don't understand.
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