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I don't have a huge issue with strio clubs or if a guy went therer. I might not like it if a guy I dated went frequently. But once in awhile, not an issue.
I've been to only 2 and I had fun myself; gave the guys cash and enjoyed the show.
Never got the allure. I thought once you got married the you can look but don't touch policy would be enough, but the married guys can't seem to get enough of it.
Just really seems odd to me personally, horn you up, leave. And I'm paying for this why exactly?
The way I see it, some men get aroused just about anywhere. Would I be wrong with that assumption?
He could be at South Beach or someone's pool party- heck even at the gym (depending on the clientele of course) he can notice a few women as hot as the sun.
If he gets turned on at those places he still has to go home with that feeling correct?
Hopefully when he gets home he has a warm body to help with those feelings- or he can take care of it himself or wait for it to pass. My point is, you can get turned on anywhere. Most places you can't satisfy your feelings then and there (well I hope not unless you want to tempt the local law enforcement) anyway. So the strip club isn't that far off except for the money issue.
If you see a Megan Fox lookalike at the strip club, at least you can get some of her time, or even hours if your credit card can handle it. At the beach or the bar you may get nothing.
I like going to strip clubs even as a straight female. Lol. I think they're fun. What's not fun about watching topless girls dancing sexy on stage? Anyone who has a problem with it is just uptight IMO.
I'm not into them myself. BUT they are a viable business where demand meets supply. Employs people and helps the economy. While I'm not religious, I consider myself with reasonable morals I treat others as I like to be treated myself, therefore you won't find me in them, as they are often degrading to women.
Thats what debates such as this come down to, morals/ethics v running a viable business. I can see both sides and have a foot in both camps......
A while back I had a co-worker ask me if I wanted to go with him to the local strip club to chill out.
I had another co-worker (who is female) who overheard the conversation comment something that sounded like she wouldn't respect anyone going to the strip club. I ended up not going cause something came up but I was wondering on her comment ever since.
I could understand if we were married it would be disrespectful to your wife, but both of us are single dudes. It only for fun and to have a drink or two.
What wrong with going to the club and relaxing after a long week of work? What are your thoughts ? Do you approve or disapprove?
Which leads to my second question.
Do any of your ladies out there go the strip clubs? and why? to have fun and chill out? Right?
Yes as a matter of fact I do go to strip clubs every Thursday, Friday and Saturday nights. I always have fun when I'm there, and I don't dissapprove of men who go there at all.....Oh ya I work there. As a stripper, yes. Hahaha.
A while back I had a co-worker ask me if I wanted to go with him to the local strip club to chill out.
What wrong with going to the club and relaxing after a long week of work? What are your thoughts?
Your handle "HappyinNY" says it all. Anything that can help men control their restless impulses and remain single will increase their long term overall happiness.
In general I think strip clubs are gross, but if a man goes to them when he's single that is his decision, and I won't judge him for it. But if a man is with me, he is either with me or going to strip clubs, he can't have both. I consider it to be cheating. And I know that may be a deal breaker for most men but oh well ...
I like going to strip clubs even as a straight female. Lol. I think they're fun. What's not fun about watching topless girls dancing sexy on stage? Anyone who has a problem with it is just uptight IMO.
I am bisexual, and not uptight, and I find them to be disgusting. Its fine if you want to play the game of a straight girl acting like a guy at the strip club, but don't expect the rest of us to give you kudos for it
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And I'm paying for this why exactly?
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