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Old 06-13-2012, 01:41 PM
 
Location: Texas
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Infidelity?

Sounds like a juicy topic. I'll reserve my thoughts on the subject until a few others have posted
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Old 06-13-2012, 01:45 PM
 
Location: Reno, NV
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Accessorize! Women do this, don't they?
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Old 06-13-2012, 01:47 PM
 
Location: U.S.A.
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Yes, lol
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Old 06-13-2012, 08:49 PM
 
Location: Texas
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Yes, lol
Details, Details?

I'd never knowingly be the guy a woman cheats on her boyfriend/husband with. Well, unless I was drunk enough and thought I could take him. haha

In all seriousness, I'd prefer for a girl to not be involved with anyone else before being intimate with her. A one night stand is one thing, but even in something like a FWB situation, I'd like to know I'm the only guy she's sleeping with currently and I would reciprocate.

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Old 06-13-2012, 08:58 PM
 
Location: The D-M-V area
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I guess you could call it infidelity.

My husband was living with someone in another city when we met. He was in my city for 4 months and we hit it off.

Proposed marriage to me 3 months after dating.

When he returned home he moved out.

We married 3 years later.
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Old 06-13-2012, 09:08 PM
 
Location: U.S.A.
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Details, Details?

I'd never knowingly be the guy a woman cheats on her boyfriend/husband with. Well, unless I was drunk enough and thought I could take him. haha

Oh believe me, it came back around. Burned and lesson learned!

I've been 100% loyal & legit for many years now.
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Old 06-13-2012, 09:12 PM
 
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I was UNknowingly an accessory of cheating when a girl that I knew told her boyfriend that she was with me when she was really out with another guy. She never told me a word about this and her boyfriend called me asking to speak to her.
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Old 06-13-2012, 09:19 PM
 
Location: Texas
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I was UNknowingly an accessory of cheating when a girl that I knew told her boyfriend that she was with me when she was really out with another guy. She never told me a word about this and her boyfriend called me asking to speak to her.
Busted! I've never felt comfortable vouching for buddies and probably won't do it any more from here on out (not that I've had to do it very much). I don't see why its so difficult for people to break things off before moving on to greener pastures.
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Old 06-13-2012, 09:24 PM
 
Location: Up above the world so high!
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A guy I dated once lied to me and told me he was single.

Within days I found out from a mutual friend that that wasn't true.

I also found out he lied and bragged about how far our date went to a few of his guy friends

I had a few of MY guy friends pay him a visit and make him apologize to me -publicly.

I'm thinking he never made that mistake again
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Old 06-14-2012, 12:34 AM
 
Location: Chicago area
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DH and I were going through a rough patch and a coworker/friend suggested that I have an affair. Then she said "Have anybody in mind?" I told her that that was an awful thing to do and out of the question. I found out from another coworker that she meant that we should have an affair. It totally creeped me out. I respect alternative lifestyles but it just wouldn't work for me. I told DH about it and asked him if it was considered cheating and he said most emphatically, yes. We had a good laugh about that one.
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