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Old 09-25-2007, 01:32 PM
 
Location: Happiness is found inside your smile :)
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Suck it up - WAlk it off - Rub some dirt on it.

I'm not going to drone on childbirth vs ONE snip snip (which you haven't even realized the HELL and pain from your breast becoming balloons and being beaten up with breastfeeding)

But Birth Control Pills are NOT a walk in the park - we don't take a pill and La dee Dah walk around like normal. It screws with our hormones - makes us not the person we are, we can become agressive, or depressed, and severely, it makes us gain weight, it takes away ALL sex drive we might have been saving up for you guys - and we do it day and day - week after week year after year - cuz a man can't handle a snip and recovery?
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Old 09-25-2007, 01:34 PM
 
Location: Happiness is found inside your smile :)
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Ps - which would you rather have: the snip snip or the male birth control pill - that will take away YOUR sex drive and screw with your hormones
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Old 09-25-2007, 02:11 PM
 
Location: Naptowne, Alaska
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I have a friend. He got snipped. Like a day or two later he slipped in the tub. After crying for an hour he swelled like a basketball for the next week! And to top it all off...she got pregnant again! I guess the 3 month rule is valid!
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Old 09-25-2007, 02:24 PM
 
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Default my wifes ob/gyn

got his wife pregnant after 6 years of being vesectomized, so I guess nothing is for certain. he did the 3 month test had he wash cleared of the swimmers!! I think some must just be real strong and can bypass the bypass!!!! I think I may just get a bigger vehicle
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Old 09-25-2007, 02:30 PM
 
Location: Brentwood, TN
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got his wife pregnant after 6 years of being vesectomized, so I guess nothing is for certain. he did the 3 month test had he wash cleared of the swimmers!! I think some must just be real strong and can bypass the bypass!!!! I think I may just get a bigger vehicle
Same thing happened to my husband's cousin!! I can understand you not wanting to get it done, my husband doesn't want to get it done either. I'm unable to take birth control anymore and we don't like condominiums either, guess you'll have to choose an early withdrawl.
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Old 09-25-2007, 02:31 PM
 
Location: Boonies of Georgia ~~~~ nuttier than a squirrel turd !
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guess you'll have to choose an early withdrawl.
That gets old real quick !!

Trust one who knows !
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Old 09-25-2007, 02:34 PM
 
Location: Brentwood, TN
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That gets old real quick !!

Trust one who knows !
LOL, yeah, I know, but what ya gonna do???

Where's Lion King when ya need him, I'm sure he's got a "solution" to this problem!!
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Old 09-25-2007, 02:38 PM
 
Location: Fort Worth/Dallas
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Yeah, I'm pretty squeamish thinking about that, though I hear it's nothing....

Maybe change your handle to "No berries" ???

Sorry, couldn't resist.
I was thinking the same thing VAFury! Sorry berries, I don't have any advice for you. I feel thankful we only have one child. Two would break the bank, but FIVE! Good luck!
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Old 09-25-2007, 03:11 PM
 
Location: The Circle City. Sometimes NE of Bagdad.
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berries,
Just do it, get it over with. Long term it will be better for both of you.
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Old 09-25-2007, 04:32 PM
 
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Seriusly, dont be afraid. This 'surgery' really depends on the person.
I know one who had it and he's a horn dog now. Another person I know has less of a drive than before. Same with womens birth control. The pill affects some, it works for some, but what about those, like me, who would forget once in awhile. Theres always the 'shot' where women go in once every 6 months for this form of birth control, and it works, nothing to have to remember exept when your next 6 month appt is.
Its relatively simple, just dont watch them do it, you should pull through.
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