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Are you a flight attendant? That would make me interested in you and I fit the above categories .
That said, my idea of a perfect girl is:
-Has a good job that requires a uniform or nice clothes (flight attendant, businesswoman, secratary, etc.)
-Dresses nice (outside of work as well)
-Petite to medium build, with nice legs that would look great in a short skirt and stockings/pantyhose (what I mean by the above)
-Sweet and caring
-Great sense of humor and fun to be with
-Patient
-Not jealous or controlling
-Fun in the bedroom of coursI
-No baggage or drama
-And finally, nothing like my ex-wife, lol
I think I've found my perfect partner who fits the above categories, with the exception of no baggage/drama (which I've mentioned in another thread). The other unfortunate thing is that it is long distance and I only get to see her twice a year.
Im an aircraft mechanic/pilot... Being a flight attendant would be sooooo boring. I do wear a uniform sometimes... But it definitely doesn't involve pantyhose or short skirts . You did specify petite or medium build, and I'm 6'1 so I don't really think I'm your type
Lol...darn, I tried to use the "Edit" post feature to update my earlier post, but I guess I arrived back a lil too late to do so...so just adding the additional detail below...
The girl in this fictional movie (which is based on the same book title by the same author who wrote "Little Women") is an excellent example of exactly the ideal/perfect feminine personality style that I like, admire, and adore
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Originally Posted by Knight2009
My list of the qualities of a hypothetical perfect partner:
1. A caring, loving, sweet, sensitive woman (meant, as in gentle, compassionate, affectionate, kindhearted, etc.).
2. Non-confrontational: prefers to avoid arguing and to gently "talk things out" together through mutual and joint positive consensus instead, whenever possible.
3. Enjoys giving and receiving frequent verbal and (PG-rated) physical affection...also must like lots of cuddling, lol!
4. Likes to to say and/or receive from a beloved the words "ILY", frequently (meant 100% genuinely, every time).
5. Respectful of differences of opinion and can "agree to disagree, without being disagreeable".
6. Believes that vows like "to have and to hold", "in sickness and in health", and "until death do us part" are holy sacraments and a sacred bond of love, not just mere empty words.
7. Pure/virtuous/innocent (take your pick of the exact term, lol) in terms of intimate experience is a nice plus, but not mandatory or a requirement -- just as long as she has a caring and loving heart, she is already 100% perfect to me.
8. An idealist at heart, and sees the good, rather than the bad, first and foremost in people.
9. Is slow to anger.
10. Truly cares about her fellow human beings, and works to alleviate suffering when possible.
11. Believes in the power of unconditional romantic love and true love, and is forgiving and compassionate of a loved one's mistakes (not counting adultery or abuse here, for obvious reasons).
12. Any height / complexion / hair color / eye color / race would be great
He like pro wrestling, doesn't mind that I work at Hooters, wants to eat my excellent cooking and will help me drink all this free beer I have in my basement.
Oops!! JK!
Ok here's my real list:
6'2"
great physical shape
broad shoulders, long legs
not the loudest guy in the room; you might not even notice him at first
a sarcastic (but not biting) sense of humor
sweet and deferential around old people and kids
outdoorsy
handy around the house
non-smoker
likes home and family but not afraid to try new things & places
protective & caring but not jealous
Finishes what he starts
Starts what needs to be finished.
Other qualities I won't specify so I don't get banned
I meet the exact criteria, except 6'4".....not single anyway
Such lists should always be taken with a grain of salt.....the woman in my entire life I hit it off best with regarding chemstry and connection was probably 15-20 pounds overweight and not that sort of build I usually find desirable on first look.
honest, straight forward
liberal
feminist
independent
non-religious
goes to the dentist and takes care of herself with good hygiene
can carry an intelligent conversation
tolerant of others out of the mainstream
no racists or homophobes
no drama or jealousy
very limited or no ink
knows alcohol and nicotine are also drugs. Strongly prefer non-(or very limited) drinker and non-tobacco user
seeks out good independent musical artists and attending concerts in small venues
hockey, soccer, and baseball fan would help as I like to go to these events
5'2"-6'0"
30-40 years old
long, dark hair
Athletic
nice complexion
nice butt (not too big, not too small. I know it when I see it)
blue or green eyes
Honest
Health Conscious
no jealousy issues (Trusting)
Educated
Career oriented
Down to earth and doesn't care about how much money I make
supportive
nurturing
sense of humor
not materialistic
loves sex and open
extroverted (I want the opposite)
non-smoker
animal lover
likes sports (a bonus if she just likes football)
Natural (no fake breasts unless she's had a health issue)
positive
emotionally intelligent and communicates well (no yelling)
compassionate
Christian, but not overly religious or judgmental
Good hygiene and feminine
Doesn't curse like a truck driver
Good sense of style but doesn't go shoe shopping every weekend.
Wants kids
Believes in marriage
I don't think this is too much to ask. I've had most of it in the past. She's gotta be out there.
I think having such lists is kind of unhealthy if you will. I can't imagine that there are people out there that exactly meet them without coming short, etc.
I suppose it is nice to dream and have aspirations in a mate, but I think one may miss out on something good if they tried to stick to the list...
- 5'10"
- broad shouldered
- thick legs & forearms
- hazel/greenish eyes
- strong as an ox
- clean cut
- confident
- assertive
- loyal
- book smart AND has common sense
- open minded
- pragmatic
- outdoorsy
- techie
- dresses situation appropriate
- likes his chicks tall
- goes by the name "Chainsaw" when not in an executive setting.
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. You did specify petite or medium build, and I'm 6'1 so I don't really think I'm your type 
