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You are wrong. You watch too much porn. You'd be better off with prostitutes than in a relationship. "on the rocks"???? Give me a break!
Come on, I'm a women and I would leave a guy if A.) he refused to perform oral or B.) was terrible at it. I'm not a pron addict. I like what I like. Essentially it's a deal breaker. Its obviously one for him too.
Not saying he should cheat, he should work through it with her and teach her better or move on.
OP there are plenty of women willing and able to give good h**d.
tell her how you like it...if she doesnt get it lead with an exsample. you cant just say " hey do it better!" and expect her to read your mind. if she still doesnt get it or want to do it the way you like after that, im sorry but its not ever going to be what you want.
if something as simple as getting head makes you want to cheat on someone you have been with for 3 years you have much bigger issues going on within your relationship and yourself then you want ot admit.
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Come on, I'm a women and I would leave a guy if A.) he refused to perform oral or B.) was terrible at it. I'm not a pron addict. I like what I like. Essentially it's a deal breaker. Its obviously one for him too.
Not saying he should cheat, he should work through it with her and teach her better or move on.
OP there are plenty of women willing and able to give good h**d.
After three years?? For no other reason?? You can't get everything you want. I agree he should talk to her but saying his relationship is on the rocks just shows how shallow he is being over it. Like others have said. That's not love. Love stays in a relationship happily even after someone becomes disabled and can't preform certain services, it doesn't cheat because he/she's not a porn star in bed. IMO the OP is self centered and not living in reality.
Weigh the pros and cons. If this is the only real con, count yourself lucky and be prepared to settle on this one thing. If you do choose to talk to her about it, or start coaching her in the process, do it tactfully and try not to make her feel bad... or she may start doing it less often as well.
Most guys like BJs. Of course! But most of us are fine with a mediocre one every day or every other day, compared to a really good one once or twice a week. At least that's what I think. Perhaps we should take a poll? lol
wow I guess this will be the last post I thread I make on it. I get ripped because I had 'thoughts' of cheating, I didn't do anything and i'm not looking for an excuse to cheat. most men I know have thoughts of cheating every so often whether they admit it or not.
anyway I have spoken to her about this during the act and at other times. she might do it alil better immediately after i tell her but then its like she forgot the next times. also one of the main problems is that she doesn't seem very 'into it' during it. i don't know how to tell her to be more 'into it'.
wow I guess this will be the last post I thread I make on it. I get ripped because I had 'thoughts' of cheating, I didn't do anything and i'm not looking for an excuse to cheat. most men I know have thoughts of cheating every so often whether they admit it or not.
anyway I have spoken to her about this during the act and at other times. she might do it alil better immediately after i tell her but then its like she forgot the next times. also one of the main problems is that she doesn't seem very 'into it' during it. i don't know how to tell her to be more 'into it'.
No no! C'mon now, shake it off. Don't leave just because someone else here is a knucklehead! That's why we have such a bad knucklehead to non-knucklehead ratio here
Question: Are you satisfying her in this arena? (And are you sure?)
BTW, some people confuse "having thoughts of cheating" with "thinking about cheating". Their problem.
wow I guess this will be the last post I thread I make on it. I get ripped because I had 'thoughts' of cheating, I didn't do anything and i'm not looking for an excuse to cheat. most men I know have thoughts of cheating every so often whether they admit it or not.
anyway I have spoken to her about this during the act and at other times. she might do it alil better immediately after i tell her but then its like she forgot the next times. also one of the main problems is that she doesn't seem very 'into it' during it. i don't know how to tell her to be more 'into it'.
BIG question. Do you perform oral on her? If so, are you into it?
You are wrong. You watch too much porn. You'd be better off with prostitutes than in a relationship. "on the rocks"???? Give me a break!
I didn't read anything about porn in the OP.
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