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Old 06-22-2012, 10:52 AM
 
Location: Chicago
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Shemales is odd... not lesbians. I think there may be some gay interest in that. Not saying he IS gay, maybe bisexual or bicurious...
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Old 06-22-2012, 10:54 AM
 
Location: Chicago
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That probably means he's either messed around with a few trannies or would like to. People typically watch the type of porn they'd like to try to engage in.
NOT true AT ALL. I can think of a couple of things that I have watched that I would never do myself. Group Sex? I mean come on, I would never want to participate, but its nice to watch.
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Old 06-22-2012, 11:40 AM
 
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Okay, this is a big fat lie. Bwahahaha. Do you actually believe that?
I was going to ask the same. According to surveys/studies, the vast majority of women and men do it eventhough it seems women have a harder time admitting it.
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Old 06-22-2012, 11:40 AM
 
Location: New Jersey
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Im engaged with this guy I love deeply and I always knew he watched porn, actually this is something we discussed about kinda openly. It was a situation that never really affected me bad since we were separated for a long period (6months), and according to him, this was more like a random activity and whatnot. Well now he is here with me again, and I know this past 4 months we've been in situations that we couldnt have sex and I knew he started watching them again.. but my worries are, even when I know he doesnt watch it often, its the kind of porn I found, most of it is straight couples, but there is this thing that bothers me.... shemales? lesbians???? :/
should I be worried about it?? there are not much, but there are.. and the simple existence of those videos in his "history" bothers me and worries me...
Do you have a vibrator? Grow up, he's an adult and he can look at whatever he wants.
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Old 06-22-2012, 11:54 AM
 
Location: Mammoth Lakes, CA
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People typically watch the type of porn they'd like to try to engage in.
Really? So all women's idea of perfect sex is blowing a guy for 20 minutes and then getting a facial? All the while, I man doesn't once touch her or engage her whatsoever?

That's 99% of all straight one-on-one porn.
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Old 06-22-2012, 11:59 AM
 
Location: New Jersey
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Really? So all women's idea of perfect sex is blowing a guy for 20 minutes and then getting a facial? All the while, I man doesn't once touch her or engage her whatsoever?

That's 99% of all straight one-on-one porn.
That's because porn is marketed to guys. Not that many women watch it; most women in the real world hate it.
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Old 06-22-2012, 12:02 PM
 
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Really? So all women's idea of perfect sex is blowing a guy for 20 minutes and then getting a facial? All the while, I man doesn't once touch her or engage her whatsoever?

That's 99% of all straight one-on-one porn.
95% of the time, hardcore porn is made to satisfy men, not women. Men are the primary consumers of porn. On the other hand, those cable-tv softcore flicks target women since they are usually the one's who like all the romance stuff.
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Old 06-22-2012, 12:10 PM
 
Location: Lower east side of Toronto
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Im engaged with this guy I love deeply and I always knew he watched porn, actually this is something we discussed about kinda openly. It was a situation that never really affected me bad since we were separated for a long period (6months), and according to him, this was more like a random activity and whatnot. Well now he is here with me again, and I know this past 4 months we've been in situations that we couldnt have sex and I knew he started watching them again.. but my worries are, even when I know he doesnt watch it often, its the kind of porn I found, most of it is straight couples, but there is this thing that bothers me.... shemales? lesbians???? :/
should I be worried about it?? there are not much, but there are.. and the simple existence of those videos in his "history" bothers me and worries me...
Any guy that watches another guy having sex with a woman is sexually confused and weak as a male.. I could see viewing the stuff that is artful and wonderful...visions of beautiful women being naughty on their own...if you are some lonely single guy who is worried about having his sexual flow decrease...

If this man has you he should not need it- Porn these days for the most part is disturbing and can de-sensitize a person too normal healthy sex..Tell the jerk to stop...If you gain an interest in this stuff- it leads to more and more weirdness...the "shemales" should be of concern...see- todays intense and extreme porn - consists of people abusing people...it's just bad- ...................................curiosity killed the cat and satisfaction brought it back....does not apply.......................again- tell the jerk to grow up and get back to the real world.....I don't know why you would consider marrying this clown who can not think for himself..and be led on by nasty people who run these sites.
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Old 06-22-2012, 12:25 PM
 
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Any guy that watches another guy having sex with a woman is sexually confused and weak as a male.. I could see viewing the stuff that is artful and wonderful...visions of beautiful women being naughty on their own...if you are some lonely single guy who is worried about having his sexual flow decrease...

If this man has you he should not need it- Porn these days for the most part is disturbing and can de-sensitize a person too normal healthy sex..Tell the jerk to stop...If you gain an interest in this stuff- it leads to more and more weirdness...the "shemales" should be of concern...see- todays intense and extreme porn - consists of people abusing people...it's just bad- ...................................curiosity killed the cat and satisfaction brought it back....does not apply.......................again- tell the jerk to grow up and get back to the real world.....I don't know why you would consider marrying this clown who can not think for himself..and be led on by nasty people who run these sites.
ha...you're not kidding.

from personal experience, i can tell you that tranny porn can send one down a slippery path to gay sex fairly quickly. it starts with the trans porn, then becoming curious about sex with a transexual, then hooking up with transexuals, then becoming a bit more open minded and looking at a little gay porn featuring feminine looking guys, then experimenting a bit with feminine looking guys (basically trannies in training).

she may want to put a stop to his tranny porn viewing.
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Old 06-22-2012, 12:30 PM
 
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Im engaged with this guy I love deeply and I always knew he watched porn, actually this is something we discussed about kinda openly. It was a situation that never really affected me bad since we were separated for a long period (6months), and according to him, this was more like a random activity and whatnot. Well now he is here with me again, and I know this past 4 months we've been in situations that we couldnt have sex and I knew he started watching them again.. but my worries are, even when I know he doesnt watch it often, its the kind of porn I found, most of it is straight couples, but there is this thing that bothers me.... shemales? lesbians???? :/
should I be worried about it?? there are not much, but there are.. and the simple existence of those videos in his "history" bothers me and worries me...
Whether it should or shouldn't is not relevant. What is relevant is that this behavior does bother you and your fiance' doesn't respect you enough to stop the behavior. He is a misogynist who views women as sex objects for his entertainment and he will never respect you.

Don't walk away, run! You can do better.
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