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Old 08-03-2012, 11:28 AM
 
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I've got a few questions I really scrutinize and use to screen profiles I'm looking at.

-The guys who respond that they could never respect a person that they slept with on the first date? Gone. If you judge someone for doing the same thing you were doing, that's just messed up.

-The guys who respond that they would strongly prefer to that their child or child's parent be of the same race as them? Gone. It's just a mindset that doesn't appeal to me.

-The guys who say they don't like pets? Gone. I'm a pet person.

-The guys who say they couldn't date someone who was even slightly overweight? Gone. I'm rapidly losing my extra weight, but I'm still not gonna be interested in those guys when it's gone. Half of them are overweight themselves!

-The guys who say the man should be the head of the household? Gone. I'm 36 and have headed up my own household since I moved out on my own. I want an equal partner.

-The guys who say they oppose gay marriage? Gone. This is about basic freedom and human rights, as far as I'm concerned. And if you want to put limits on other people's relationships, you're just way too much of a control freak for me.

So what are YOUR OKC dealbreakers?
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Old 08-03-2012, 11:30 AM
 
Location: The Present
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Online dating/using OK cupid is a deal breaker.
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Old 08-03-2012, 11:32 AM
 
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Online dating/using OK cupid is a deal breaker.
Your choice. It works all right for some of us.
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Old 08-03-2012, 11:36 AM
 
Location: Homeless
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Online dating/using OK cupid is a deal breaker.

I got ONE hit from Ok Cupid I had much better luck from Plently Of Fish. Hence where I met my date.
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Old 08-03-2012, 11:40 AM
 
Location: NoVa
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I didn't like any of the sites but Match.....
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Old 08-03-2012, 11:43 AM
 
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I didn't like any of the sites but Match.....
I hate paying for Match.com - OKC is free and more informative, I think. But yeah, I tried Match first, and it was fun.
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Old 08-03-2012, 11:56 AM
 
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If he answers "Yes" to the "Do you have rape fantasies?" question, we won't be communicating.
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Old 08-03-2012, 12:16 PM
 
Location: Wherever women are
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I've got a few questions I really scrutinize and use to screen profiles I'm looking at.

-The guys who respond that they could never respect a person that they slept with on the first date? Gone. If you judge someone for doing the same thing you were doing, that's just messed up.

-The guys who respond that they would strongly prefer to that their child or child's parent be of the same race as them? Gone. It's just a mindset that doesn't appeal to me.

-The guys who say they don't like pets? Gone. I'm a pet person.

-The guys who say they couldn't date someone who was even slightly overweight? Gone. I'm rapidly losing my extra weight, but I'm still not gonna be interested in those guys when it's gone. Half of them are overweight themselves!

-The guys who say the man should be the head of the household? Gone. I'm 36 and have headed up my own household since I moved out on my own. I want an equal partner.

-The guys who say they oppose gay marriage? Gone. This is about basic freedom and human rights, as far as I'm concerned. And if you want to put limits on other people's relationships, you're just way too much of a control freak for me.

So what are YOUR OKC dealbreakers?
That's the demographic the crocodile targets. Take a fresh, ripe fruit and bite her.

Otherwise, there are women who have a fetish for blacks, brownies and other colours.
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Old 08-03-2012, 12:39 PM
 
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That you were kidnapped by aliens, resided on plant Zar for 10 years and learned how to drink through your ear.
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Old 08-03-2012, 12:49 PM
 
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That you were kidnapped by aliens, resided on plant Zar for 10 years and learned how to drink through your ear.
I dunno, I think I'd maybe want to go on just one date with that person. It would make a great story, lol
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