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Old 06-25-2012, 04:03 PM
 
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This has been bothering me all night because she is DAMM HOT. I have decided to block her so I won't have to see her sexy A$$ anymore which will remind me of the irritation of not being able to go with her
You may want to step away from the dating sites for a while.
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Old 06-25-2012, 04:03 PM
 
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Probably laugh in her face and look her up and down so I can play with her self-esteem
Since when do you leave your apartment?
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Old 06-25-2012, 04:05 PM
 
Location: Viña del Mar, Chile
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This has been bothering me all night because she is DAMM HOT. I have decided to block her so I won't have to see her sexy A$$ anymore which will remind me of the irritation of not being able to go with her

Wow... that's weird.
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Old 06-25-2012, 04:06 PM
 
Location: Davenport, Iowa
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Probably laugh in her face and look her up and down so I can play with her self-esteem
I'm sure her self-esteem would survive.
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Old 06-25-2012, 04:07 PM
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Location: Tall Building down by the river
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Wow... that's weird.
Why? I don't want to keep seeing her face when I browse
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Old 06-25-2012, 04:14 PM
 
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Why?
"I don't think that's something you want to say to a man when you both live in the same city, not smart"

Because it sounds like you're plotting revenge or something. At worst, it could be construed as a veiled threat. At best, it could be interpreted as an intention to approach her and tell her off if you ever encounter her in person. Which would just make you look silly to everyone watching. Or do you have a bunch of guy friends you exchange information with about women on the site?

Why do you take these exchanges so personally? When someone's actually rude to me on a dating site (simply telling me they're not interested doesn't count), it just sets me to laughing - and then of course, I forward their profile to all my friends. They're strangers who I've never met after all - what do they mean to me? Politeness is appreciated of course, but if they're jerks, really, what do they signify? They are nothing to me, and if they are rude to me, they become less than nothing.

I suspect strongly she's friends with someone who you've already told off - I know my friends and I exchange names of undesirables regularly. She might have even been deliberately baiting for s**ts and giggles. If she's not striking back on behalf of a friend, then yeah, she's pretty atrocious, but what's the point of getting enraged by someone who is just a picture and some words on a web site?

You just seem to have vested a lot of meaning in these little email exchanges, and expend a lot of energy on anger if you aren't treated in a very precise manner.
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Old 06-25-2012, 04:17 PM
 
Location: Viña del Mar, Chile
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Let me see her page, I wanna see what this girl looks like and if she is really hot enough to have such a crappy personality. Maybe I'll send her a message and then tell her she isn't attractive enough for me
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Old 06-25-2012, 04:23 PM
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Location: Tall Building down by the river
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"I don't think that's something you want to say to a man when you both live in the same city, not smart"

Because it sounds like you're plotting revenge or something. At worst, it could be construed as a veiled threat. At best, it could be interpreted as an intention to approach her and tell her off if you ever encounter her in person. Which would just make you look silly to everyone watching. Or do you have a bunch of guy friends you exchange information with about women on the site?

Why do you take these exchanges so personally? When someone's actually rude to me on a dating site (simply telling me they're not interested doesn't count), it just sets me to laughing - and then of course, I forward their profile to all my friends. They're strangers who I've never met after all - what do they mean to me? Politeness is appreciated of course, but if they're jerks, really, what do they signify? They are nothing to me, and if they are rude to me, they become less than nothing.

I suspect strongly she's friends with someone who you've already told off - I know my friends and I exchange names of undesirables regularly. She might have even been deliberately baiting for s**ts and giggles. If she's not striking back on behalf of a friend, then yeah, she's pretty atrocious, but what's the point of getting enraged by someone who is just a picture and some words on a web site?

You just seem to have vested a lot of meaning in these little email exchanges, and expend a lot of energy on anger if you aren't treated in a very precise manner.

I wouldn't tell her who I was I would just laugh in her face and she would never know why. Her self-esteem would be messed up for a while and wondering "why is that guy laughing at me"
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Old 06-25-2012, 04:26 PM
 
Location: Viña del Mar, Chile
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I wouldn't tell her who I was I would just laugh in her face and she would never know why. Her self-esteem would be messed up for a while and wondering "why is that guy laughing at me"

No, that wouldn't happen .. she'd look at you laughing and think you're a creep or have mental issues. In no way would her self esteem be messed up.. no one with a normal brain would be messed up from this.

It's a little disturbing how you're reacting to this one message, get over it.. there are rude people out there.
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Old 06-25-2012, 04:29 PM
 
Location: New Jersey
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No, that wouldn't happen .. she'd look at you laughing and think you're a creep or have mental issues. In no way would her self esteem be messed up.. no one with a normal brain would be messed up from this.

It's a little disturbing how you're reacting to this one message, get over it.. there are rude people out there.

meanwhile in the 'chris brown abuse thread' some guy was trying to make a point about how MOST men are not 'dangerous, etc. etc.' Yea sure. I wasn't buying it then and not now.
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