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Old 06-26-2012, 06:06 PM
 
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Yep. but this is about stupid stuff drunk men say.
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Old 06-26-2012, 06:09 PM
 
Location: New Jersey
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Yep. but this is about stupid stuff drunk men say.
yes it is. but you made post no. 20 as if men do not do the exact same things, that lady poster did with the guy on the dancefloor. I'm just saying they act the same exact way.
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Old 06-26-2012, 06:14 PM
 
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Do I have to include a caveat with everything I say? How about you just ignore it if you don't like it so much.
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Old 06-26-2012, 06:16 PM
 
Location: Boston
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No need to be defensive. I'm just saying, a lot of the time, when a woman talks about a a guy doing 'creepy' things, it is often the GUY who is the problem. If a different guy did those things they would not have an issue at all

like this

Tom Brady on SNL skit (Smigel): "Sexual Harassment and You" - YouTube
I'm not being defensive; I'm stating a fact about my personality. Louis Garrel (French indie actor) could stand before me now, but if he acted like any of those guys that I mentioned, I would be just as turned off.
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Old 06-26-2012, 06:20 PM
 
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What if he was drunk? come on give the guy a break, it's not even his native language.
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Old 06-26-2012, 06:25 PM
 
Location: where you sip the tea of the breasts of the spinsters of Utica
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No need to be defensive. I'm just saying, a lot of the time, when a woman talks about a a guy doing 'creepy' things, it is often the GUY who is the problem. If a different guy did those things they would not have an issue at all

like this

Tom Brady on SNL skit (Smigel): "Sexual Harassment and You" - YouTube
That is SO true, great little vid. It's a true difference in the way women and men react to unwanted advances - the man simply shuts out the woman or talks about something different, while women sometimes think an undesirable guy is "creepy" and may even complain to others about his fumbled attempt. I've seen and experienced both sides several times when I was younger and more nervous.
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Old 06-26-2012, 06:35 PM
 
Location: New Jersey
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Do I have to include a caveat with everything I say? How about you just ignore it if you don't like it so much.

no you don't have to include a caveat. I could but I didn't b/c it wasn't about me liking it or not.
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Old 06-26-2012, 07:20 PM
 
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While I was dancing with a guy: "Your skin is so soft..." Oh god, someone help me! That's probably the creepiest line I've ever gotten.

While talking to a friend of a friend after a few minutes: "So, are we going to continue talking or are we gonna make out?" I flat out told him that we were *not* going to make out.

Guy comes up to me and asks me to dance, I politely say "No thank you." and he yells, "Fine! I didn't wanna dance with your bougie ass anyway!" What the hell.
So what were you doing dancing with a guy you just met anyway?
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Old 06-26-2012, 07:31 PM
 
Location: Frisco, TX
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My absolute favorite: "You have some big a** ti**ies." Is that a compliment? Am I supposed to say thank you? O_o
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Old 06-26-2012, 07:40 PM
 
Location: Boston
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So what were you doing dancing with a guy you just met anyway?
I wasn't aware that it was considered to be suspicious to let a guy dance with me when I was already on the dance floor myself.

Would you ask that same question to that guy? What was he doing trying to dance with a woman he never met?
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