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Old 06-30-2012, 08:34 PM
 
Location: Huntersville/Charlotte, NC and Washington, DC
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I could not grow hair on my upper lip or parts of my cheeks at age 24 to save my life and women grow it? WTF?!

To the OP. I don't think that you are totally out of bounds here. (Noticeable) hair on the face would bother me too. Any other part of the body would not be bother me but if I wanted to feel facial hair while I'm kissing, I'd kiss a man.
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Old 06-30-2012, 08:35 PM
 
Location: Corydon, IN
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I say if she's everything else, then ignore the fuzz. It's not whiskers, and if she spends time messing with it then the hair might darken or thicken.

Odds are she's aware of it and possibly self-conscious a bit about it.

C'mon -- just deal! After all, she deals with your farts and occasionally sweaty junk, doesn't she?
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Old 06-30-2012, 08:38 PM
 
Location: State of Transition
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I have been going out with my girlfriend now for about 6 months now, she is lovely, I care for her so very much and I really want to be with her....However over the last week or so I have noticed that she has got quite a fluffy face (very fine blonde hairs) on her cheeks, chin and upper lip, the hairs seem to be quite long, 1cm give or take... Now the worst thing is every time I look at her (especially side on) I cant help but focus on the hairs... What do I do?? How do I mention something to her without her kicking off, or feeling really insecure. I am in a real pickle?? can anyone help?
This reads like a Seinfeld show routine.
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Old 06-30-2012, 08:39 PM
 
Location: Huntersville/Charlotte, NC and Washington, DC
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I say if she's everything else, then ignore the fuzz. It's not whiskers, and if she spends time messing with it then the hair might darken or thicken.

Odds are she's aware of it and possibly self-conscious a bit about it.

C'mon -- just deal! After all, she deals with your farts and occasionally sweaty junk, doesn't she?
Don't count. Men are expected to do those things. Women ain't supposed to have facial hair. Sorry, just not natural.
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Old 06-30-2012, 08:42 PM
 
Location: Corydon, IN
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Don't count. Men are expected to do those things. Women ain't supposed to have facial hair. Sorry, just not natural.


I know this approach:


Opinions are like orgasms! Mine is the one that matters, but I'll pretend yours does too, if it will keep you quiet...
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Old 06-30-2012, 08:44 PM
 
Location: USA
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I know this approach:


Opinions are like orgasms! Mine is the one that matters, but I'll pretend yours does too, if it will keep you quiet...


OMG! I can't rep you, but this HAS to be the funniest remark yet!

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Old 06-30-2012, 09:11 PM
 
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When you're being so mean and critical about someone you are supposed to be in love with then I think it's time to re-evaluate the relationship. I suggest you get used to the fact no-one is perfect.
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Old 06-30-2012, 09:32 PM
 
Location: Corydon, IN
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omigod, it just hit me...


What if your face ISN'T fluffy enough for HER? What if you're lacking adequate masculinity vie exterior exposure?


Would you be willing to Rogaine your face if she preferred you a bit rougher?
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Old 06-30-2012, 09:46 PM
 
Location: Ohio
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I have been going out with my girlfriend now for about 6 months now, she is lovely, I care for her so very much and I really want to be with her....However over the last week or so I have noticed that she has got quite a fluffy face (very fine blonde hairs) on her cheeks, chin and upper lip, the hairs seem to be quite long, 1cm give or take... Now the worst thing is every time I look at her (especially side on) I cant help but focus on the hairs... What do I do?? How do I mention something to her without her kicking off, or feeling really insecure. I am in a real pickle?? can anyone help?
What should you do you ask? Break up with this girl imediately! I'm serious, that way, she can find a real man who'll treat her right, regardless of the fact she has peach fuzz on her face.

I SWEAR, the things some of you guys complain about and see as a "problem"..... a lot of other men would kill to have...

This reminds me of when I hear guys complain "ohhhh, I haven't had sex in a whole WEEK!!! woe is me woe is me"

Booo frick'n hoo bro, come and talk to me when ya got a real problem.

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Old 06-30-2012, 09:49 PM
 
Location: State of Transition
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What should you do you ask? Break up with this girl imediately! I'm serious, that way, she can find a real man who'll treat her right, regardless of the fact she has peach fuzz on her face..
This is what I was going to say. Good call, Snapper!
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