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Old 06-29-2012, 03:07 PM
 
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I'm not a homophobe at all but it baffles me when I see a pretty lesbian paired with a tom boy dressed in oversized mens clothing. If you're a lesbian and are attracted to women wouldn't you be attracted to women with beautiful feminine features? What makes women attracted to tomboys? If you desire masculinity why would you choose a woman over a man?
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Old 06-29-2012, 03:34 PM
 
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Don't know many lesbians, do you?
Do you have the same type of question when a beautiful woman is with an unattractive-looking man?
Or when a hot man is with an average or less than average woman?

How about they're all drawn to the people, not the wrapping.

All people are pretty much the same that way.
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Old 06-29-2012, 03:36 PM
 
Location: Viña del Mar, Chile
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All the butch lesbians that I've met are complete jerks to any guy.
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Old 06-29-2012, 03:44 PM
 
Location: On the corner of Grey Street
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I've wondered the same thing. I went to a pride festival here a few weeks ago and I saw lots of women with another woman who really looked like a man. I don't have a lesbian bone in my body, but if I did I'd make sure to get the hottest chick I could!
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Old 06-29-2012, 03:50 PM
 
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OK Folks.. Rude and inappropriate comments will not be tolerated here.
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Old 06-29-2012, 03:55 PM
 
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I have a gay friend and her partner is very feminine. They both are very pretty and always dress in feminine clothes.

As is usual, it is not 'EVERY' lesbian who like tomboys, no more than it is every guy likes blondes or every women likes bald men. We are all different in our likes and who we are drawn to romantically
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Old 06-29-2012, 03:59 PM
 
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When you figure it out, let the rest of us know. It's a mystery to me. I still believe in God even though I don't attend church. That should explain it BEST!!
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Old 06-29-2012, 04:00 PM
 
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Don't know many lesbians, do you?
Do you have the same type of question when a beautiful woman is with an unattractive-looking man?
Or when a hot man is with an average or less than average woman?

How about they're all drawn to the people, not the wrapping.

All people are pretty much the same that way.
Simply put...preference.
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Old 06-29-2012, 04:02 PM
 
Location: where you sip the tea of the breasts of the spinsters of Utica
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Women are more attracted by personality traits than by looks. A confidant tom could probably manage to get even normally straight women in bed ..... a few drinks, a little neck massage, male mannerisms would do it.
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Old 06-29-2012, 04:03 PM
 
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Simply put...preference.
I agree.
I think the OP was filled with judgment.
So they're judging other's preferences.

Sometimes I just boggle.
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