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I'd think he was just buttering me up for a booty call. Tell her she looks nice, then work your way up on the compliment scale over a few dates. Hearing I'm sexy from a boyfriend = so awesome and such a turn on. Hearing I'm sexy from a stranger on a first date = creeper who just wants a piece
It works better than saying "you look nice". What's nice? How am I nice? Can you explain please? I said you were nice. From my own experiences, they don't like stutters or guys who leave them cold. Tell me what you like and want and you might just GET IT!
Why say anything complimentary at all to a stranger? Why not say instead, "Are you enjoying the concert?", or, while in the check-out line, "How do you like this store compared to the branch across town", or "Have you been to the organic grocery? Their produce looks great and isn't too expensive", or (on the street), "I'm looking for the XYZ store, is this the right block? You look like you know your way around..." You get the idea. The subtle approach works a lot better than, "WOW, those are some nice hooters you have, ma'am!"
Oh, but Piff would have us believe that all you have to do is whip out your bank statement and show it to her.
What I don't understand is, why does this need to be explained? How many times have we already been through this on umpteen threads? Women aren't space aliens, we're your sister, your cousin, your friend's sister. Talk to us like you talk to fellow humans that you respect, not hookers.
Why say anything complimentary at all to a stranger? Why not say instead, "Are you enjoying the concert?", or, while in the check-out line, "How do you like this store compared to the branch across town", or "Have you been to the organic grocery? Their produce looks great and isn't too expensive", or (on the street), "I'm looking for the XYZ store, is this the right block? You look like you know your way around..." You get the idea. The subtle approach works a lot better than, "WOW, those are some nice hooters you have, ma'am!"
Oh, but Piff would have us believe that all you have to do is whip out your bank statement and show it to her.
What I don't understand is, why does this need to be explained? How many times have we already been through this on umpteen threads? Women aren't space aliens, we're your sister, your cousin, your friend's sister. Talk to us like you talk to fellow humans that you respect, not hookers.
I look past thousands without saying a word. For *the one*...I'm doing ANYTHING to get her. ANYTHING!! I'll find the courage somehow to get it done. Sorry "git-r-done".
"I just wanted to say that you are sexy and I am attracted to you."
What reaction will saying this get?
Why do you need to say it?
Isn't it obvious?
Why else would you be on a date?
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