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Old 06-30-2012, 10:42 PM
 
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so the guy that i've been talking about that i have been dating.... been acting up.
He has a baby momma of 2 kids and i accepted that he did have a family of his own and everything.
Welll i think he is still together with her while being with me.
He only contacts me at night now and came over last night to made me.
and then today he said he was coming but after 7PM he stop replying, calling and texting.
Please give me advice i've really fallen for this guy a lot.
I don't know what to do....
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Old 06-30-2012, 10:44 PM
 
Location: New Jersey
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Get him to marry you. Don't let this one get away.
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Old 06-30-2012, 10:48 PM
 
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does that make sense though
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Old 06-30-2012, 10:53 PM
 
Location: New Jersey
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does that make sense though

Yea it does to me.... No reason to let a man like that get away. Also you will have legitimate reasons to start contacting him during the day light hours too now. Bonus.

Last edited by Doll Eyes; 06-30-2012 at 11:08 PM..
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Old 06-30-2012, 10:54 PM
 
Location: So Cal
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Get him to marry you. Don't let this one get away.
Are you being real Dolleyes?? otherwise its sorta mean to the OP......
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Old 06-30-2012, 11:02 PM
 
Location: New Jersey
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Are you being real Dolleyes?? otherwise its sorta mean to the OP......


Well I would be serious if I thought the OP was serious in the first place. That 5 post count and this ridiculous situation of a man only contacting you at night with baby mama drama -- "OMG, what to do??" Please.
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Old 06-30-2012, 11:06 PM
 
Location: Blah
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Get him to marry you. Don't let this one get away.
Haha...yup, sounds like a real keeper
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Old 06-30-2012, 11:08 PM
 
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I think your guess that he is still with the baby mama, or at least some other woman, sounds correct if he only sees you at night. He works I assume, have you ever asked to meet him for lunch? I would make a more concerted effort to see if he will stay in touch during the day and if he will not, I would address it with him.
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Old 07-01-2012, 01:22 AM
 
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ive addressed it to him plenty of times yes he works but never in the night. i actually just went over to his house to see if he's car is there. nothing. walked over to his best friend, his car isn't there also. So they are always together every day hanging out like brothers. To find i was walking over around the plaza to find him driving alone at 245AM and he saw me. however, doesn't even pull over to see me or nothing. Until now he doesn't answer or nothing.
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Old 07-01-2012, 01:27 AM
 
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Yea it does to me.... No reason to let a man like that get away. Also you will have legitimate reasons to start contacting him during the day light hours too now. Bonus.
thinking about it especially what happened tonight. Why would i keep him and marry him. Has much has i love him so dam much.
I always contacting him all day long to check in and tell him what i do and check on him if everything is okay. But yet, he doesn't have any interest in me until night falls. BUt even tonight i haven't heard anything.
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