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Old 07-03-2012, 08:49 PM
 
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Or maybe they're just fugly
lots of truth there.

 
Old 07-03-2012, 09:03 PM
 
Location: Alexandria, VA
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I think they need to change the saying to "passive guys finish last." I consider myself to be a nice guy, but I do fine with the female population. I'm confident, I make them laugh, but at the same I don't let anybody walk all over me. I do some "jerky" things, but I do them playfully. So I agree with the poster that said man up and stop whining.
 
Old 07-03-2012, 09:25 PM
 
Location: Australia
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I was one the nice guy and I got no action

Now I am the bad boy and I get action

I am only giving what women I their 20s want, excitement and to be treated like an object if women don't like being treated Like an object then they would not reward a guy like me with sex. Women do get sick of bad boys in their 30s abd they do love to complain "where have all the nice guys gorne" I can tell you where they went, you women turned them after years of using them while only having sex with the bad boys
 
Old 07-03-2012, 09:31 PM
 
Location: Middle of the valley
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Because most people who seem to post on here claim they can't find a woman because they say they are a nice guy.

i think only a handful of guys on here are truely nice and a gentleman though. Most just wine.
They are also the ones who post "I'm a nice guy and all women bi-otches who just just want perfect 10 guys, or gold diggers who go for money, and those sl*ts are for in a rude awakening when they hit 30 and all the alpha males no longer want them, and they will want a guy JUST LIKE ME and I will tell them NO!!"

I think that should cover it.

Whine follows wine.....
 
Old 07-03-2012, 09:34 PM
 
Location: SWUS
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There is a difference between being a "nice guy" and being a "good man." The primary difference is that one typically pines after someone he'll never get, and allows himself to be a doormat, and the other knows when to bow out and pursue something or someone better that will actually want him and be happy with him.
 
Old 07-03-2012, 09:38 PM
 
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They are also the ones who post "I'm a nice guy and all women bi-otches who just just want perfect 10 guys, or gold diggers who go for money, and those sl*ts are for in a rude awakening when they hit 30 and all the alpha males no longer want them, and they will want a guy JUST LIKE ME and I will tell them NO!!"

I think that should cover it.

Whine follows wine.....
I'm like that but only the women who told me I wasn't BF material.

But I'm also assuming they won't approach me either. At least I hope not.
 
Old 07-03-2012, 09:46 PM
 
Location: Iowa, Heartland of Murica
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"Nice guy" is a PC term for a pathetic pansy that has no balls, no game and loves to be treated like a doormat.
 
Old 07-03-2012, 09:48 PM
 
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Eventually, they'll learn the doormat programming works against them. Just hope the damage isn't too severe otherwise they'll get the bitter label. Seems dating in your 20s is a rough patch if you're average, poor, undereducated, etc. I'd hate to see guys suffer the way I had -- but the proof is in the pudding when you realize the truth behind the dynamics.

All those women that turned them down aren't worth pining over, its a bullet worth dodging if she picks the unreliable stud over a reliable joe. It's like loving someone who sucks at math.
 
Old 07-03-2012, 09:52 PM
 
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There's some disturbing trends here that most people have come to identify the term nice with entitled douchebag who expects something for being nice. Which in my opinion is pretty f'd up because there are some genuinely nice people out there who do things out of the kindness of their heart. Now for all the people who look down on nice people in general, were you bullies in high school? Are you bullies now?
 
Old 07-03-2012, 10:03 PM
 
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Why is it that people won't stop talking about "nice guys"
Why? Everyone with any intelligence whatsoever knows that these are the guys that women should be marrying.

For those of us who are sick of listening to women complain about their ex, how their SO is a lazy jerk or how they cannot find a good man, these threads will be an eternal effort to get them to clam up.
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