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I don't want to bust him, I just want this whole wife/kids thing to not be true. I thought this guy had potential, so this really sucks and it makes no sense! We spent frickin' 4th of July together. Shouldn't he have done that with his wife and kids??
Well, sounds to me like you don't want to bust him because you want to prolong the fantasy that he's really available
The reality is, you won't know what's really up with him until you tell him what you found.
There is always the off chance that there is some kind of logical explanation - see if you can find out what it is.
Well, sounds to me like you don't want to bust him because you want to prolong the fantasy that he's really available
The reality is, you won't know what's really up with him until you tell him what you found.
There is always the off chance that there is some kind of logical explanation - see if you can find out what it is.
Well, I definitely can't go out with him again and act like everything's cool, so I'm going to have to bring it up. I just wish I could find more evidence than what I already found...
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Move on... don't get involved with married men... it's a losing battle... morally, spiritually and probably legally.... LOL...
Yeah, obviously, but I'm just having a really hard time believing that this guy is married with kids. It just doesn't add up.
Sugar...when you are my age...you assume everything is a lie, until it has been verified as true. I date men...and really don't care about them or what they say until I have been to their house, their job, and met some of their friends....until then....I just listen and make no investment...
Yep. Anyone that takes these folks at their word, without some sort of verification, is just asking to be duped, at least in the dating field.
Yeah, obviously, but I'm just having a really hard time believing that this guy is married with kids. It just doesn't add up.
Do one of the online search sites. It'll tell you if he's married, or was married, and if there was a recent divorce. If no divorce shows up, there's your answer. Unless maybe he's separated from his wife, it wouldn't show that unless maybe it's a legal separation. For some extra money, you can get a criminal background check, though there's a lot that doesn't show up on those. They can give you a false sense of security if they come up clear.
I think this has happened to every girl in the world. When this happened to me YEARS ago. I confronted him, and walked away! At that time we didn't have facebook nor text, so it was easier.
I just ripped up his number and never saw him again. You have to be the bigger person here.
Tell him he is a piece of ****! When a married man asks a woman out, consider it an insult! (Even a married woman asking out a man too).
I think this has happened to every girl in the world. When this happened to me YEARS ago. I confronted him, and walked away! At that time we didn't have facebook nor text, so it was easier.
I just ripped up his number and never saw him again. You have to be the bigger person here.
Tell him he is a piece of ****! When a married man asks a woman out, consider it an insult! (Even a married woman asking out a man too).
I really think that lying about having kids is even worse. How do you just deny your own children?
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