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leya muleya · 07-07-2012, 05:37 AM

There was this guy that i knew through facebook,we became close and he said we should meet in person we did and on the date he kissed me more than 3 times.he said he was having a great time.I went home and he said he called me telling me how much he missed.The next day i asked him what i was to him and if we were dating.he never replied so the next day i sent him a text saying i hope we could just be friends because i knew he didnt like me back.he nevr replied up to now.What am i supposed to do?What does he mean by this?

ellie · 07-07-2012, 06:25 AM

Premature question gets no answer. Don't rush things. Live and learn, little girl.

Checkered24 · 07-07-2012, 07:06 AM

Don't be impatient for a response, but in general, if he is not replying to you and ignoring you, it is time to move on. He isn't interested.

D. Scott · 07-08-2012, 08:29 AM

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Originally Posted by Checkered24

Don't be impatient for a response, but in general, if he is not replying to you and ignoring you, it is time to move on. He isn't interested.

Just move on. You communicated. It was on him to respond.

ben242000 · 07-08-2012, 08:47 AM

After one date don't ask someone if you guys are in a relationship already. I'd be freaked out too and probably not respond.

yankeegirl313 · 07-08-2012, 11:11 AM

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Originally Posted by ben242000

After one date don't ask someone if you guys are in a relationship already. I'd be freaked out too and probably not respond.

Yeah..this.

Do not contact him again. If he is interested, he will get in touch.

Miss J 74 · 07-08-2012, 11:17 AM

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Originally Posted by ben242000

After one date don't ask someone if you guys are in a relationship already. I'd be freaked out too and probably not respond.

I agree with this also.

One date is just that, a date.

Now several dates....that's a different story. You're allowed to ask at that point.

caesarsgirl79 · 07-08-2012, 11:54 AM

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Originally Posted by Miss J 74

I agree with this also.

One date is just that, a date.

Now several dates....that's a different story. You're allowed to ask at that point.

Exactly....He was probably scared.

iknowftbll · 07-08-2012, 11:59 AM

I don't know, the guy kissed her several times. That tends to raise expectations. If he got scared when the OP asked if they were in a relationship, it is something he brought upon himself.

lovesMountains · 07-08-2012, 12:22 PM

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Originally Posted by leya muleya

There was this guy that i knew through facebook,we became close and he said we should meet in person we did and on the date he kissed me more than 3 times.he said he was having a great time.I went home and he said he called me telling me how much he missed.The next day i asked him what i was to him and if we were dating.he never replied so the next day i sent him a text saying i hope we could just be friends because i knew he didnt like me back.he nevr replied up to now.What am i supposed to do?What does he mean by this?

Learn the lesson...patience little one, patience